Ask most female swingers whether a big penis is important when looking for guys or couples to swing with and most will tell you that it is. Whether males want to face up to it or not, the facts of life are that most women love big penises.

Big doesn't mean huge however, and whilst there are indeed some swinger couples who seek out gang bangs with groups of very well endowed men, most are simply looking for couple to couple relationships. The two guys in a typical swinger couple foursome are unlikely to be endowed with huge members but most ladies will prefer their guys to have at least seven inches when erect.

Small penises can be a source of sexual frustration for all women. You don't need to be a swinger to experience disappointment with the size of a sexual partner's penis and this is not just because a large penis looks so pleasing or feels so good to handle. A major reason for women preferring bigger penises is that they are more capable of stimulating the woman's sexual pleasure centres located deep inside her vagina and on its walls. Orgasms achieved by stimulating these areas are often more pleasurable and prolonged than ones induced purely by the stimulation of her clitoris. A big penis and as importantly, one with a thick girth, is required to apply pressure to these parts of the vagina.

However, long before penetration occurs, or in the case of swingers who reserve penetrative sex for own partner sex only; a big penis does much to enhance the swinging experience for women. Simply, the sight of a big penis is a turn on for many women and helps them to become sexually excited even before the foreplay commences. Then there is the feel of a large, thick organ in her small hand, followed perhaps by oral sex and the sense of enormity as the penis gets nearer to her face. This gradual build up of excitement makes it easier for women to achieve multiple orgasms as their bodies are in induced into a more receptive state over a longer period of time.

Whilst this is all good news for guys on the swing scene who are fortunate enough to be well endowed, it is obviously not such great news for the many whose sex drive is not matched by the size of their member. This is actually a very common situation indeed, so let's quickly put it all into perspective. If you have less than six inches to offer, it certainly does not rule you out as a swinger and if you are an attractive guy with an attractive partner, you are probably going to have as much fun as most of the really big guys. The female swingers are wise enough to know that what might make the best sex isn't necessarily going to make the best all round fun and swinging is just as much about having fun with lots of different people as it is about having sex with them.