The Recipe to Attract Success in a Work at Home Business in Direct Sales.


by Nick A. James - Date: 2007-02-01 - Word Count: 1623 Share This!

Consider this statement - we attract everyone currently in our lives, (boyfriend, girlfriend, spouse)

We are always attracting things into our lives and we also knowingly or not repel people and things.

Want someone to avoid you, try practicing poor hygiene for several months. Think you might alienate someone - you know it.

Now think about things you might do to attract someone like losing weight or driving a new car.
Face it certain things we do like good grooming attract others and poor habits like chewing with your mouth open tend to alienate others.

Home based business or MLM network marketing success also adheres to the laws of attraction. Most people RSVP failure to their party.

This article provides insight into our habits and thoughts that we want to avoid that alienate work at home based business MLM success and open the door to failure, and provides training insights to move us down the right path towards success.

First we must realize that our subconscious mind is like a dumb computer. It doesn't know reality, like a computer it gives us what we program it to do.

Always remember this, our subconscious mind only processes and feeds us back our thoughts, in this way it's like a computer, negative in, negative thoughts out, positive in, positive thoughts out. It only processes the information that we feed it.

Now that I understand I must avoid negative mental programming what do I do to program my mind for success?

First we must understand energy, the world consists of energy, all of our thoughts are comprised of pure energy, in fact the creation of the entire universe started with a thought.

We have the power to control our destiny and success by learning to control the energy of how we focus our thoughts.

First everyday look for reasons to be grateful - say out loud what you have to be grateful about. The process of being thankful focuses your thoughts in an upbeat and the proper manner for beginning each day. To assure you remain in a positive state during the day carry some object on your person that carries a reminder to feel thankful for all you have.

The next step is to identify what you want and ask for it. The Bible says ask and it shall be given unto you.

Most people have trouble asking for what they want because they think they are being selfish.

Since many individuals don't understand asking, I think it is beneficial for your mindset toward success for the next couple paragraphs to explain wealth creation.

Most people think the world is like a finite pie, if they get more, everyone else gets less so they think I don't want to be selfish, they couldn't be more wrong.

Many people without actually thinking about it just think of most wealthy people as being selfish. Before we ask for something we are either selfish or unselfish in our heart. Actually we can never only create wealth and riches for only ourselves. This process also creates more wealth for many others.

If we're unselfish we help the poor more by having than by not. We can't give what we don't have.

The World often attributes those who seek wealth as being selfish, because they believe to become wealthy requires taking from those who have less. When in reality becoming wealthy is because we provide something of value to many others who have less.

Have you considered why these do-gooders who seem to want to define what is selfish and what is not, think as they do? Consider that there have always been people for many centuries whose goal has been through government to control the lives of others.

Unless you've been living in a cave all your life you're certainly aware that taxing people is how governments fund themselves. However, because most people in government have never had their own successful business. Until you've created wealth yourself you can easily misunderstand how it's created. Government in effect takes from one people through taxing them and gives to others. Basically this is a shell game where nothing new is created. However, you must realize that a tax on income is a tax on production. So I ask the question is more production good or bad in other words would you like more food or less food, more houses or less houses. Which of these scenarios benefits the most people? So why would you want to impose higher taxes on higher production? Why would you want to discourage more being produced when we've just shown how more production helps more people?

We're back on track now after our needed explanation. So how does asking work toward creating success?

Asking here is defining what we desire (new car, new home, more time with family) the key here is getting very specific about what we want. Too often we say we want a lot of money or a new car. Our subconscious mind can't really comprehend a lot of money, it's abstract and therefore it can't help us obtain it. However, a number like $98,854 in our bank account, that it can understand. Or a red Mustang convertible with red seats, etc it can understand.

Thus the proper way to ask is to be very precise, calculating and write it down. Next step, from top coaches is to get you visualizing your desired output from what you wrote down. For example if your goal is a new Mustang look at your hands and then envision them wrapped around the steering wheel of your new Mustang and you're cruising down the road. The more detail you put into your visualization the better.

This next principal is very important. When we ask we always get an answer. The answer we get may or not be what we thought we would get. In order words the timing may be off. This is not to say we aren't going to get that new house or car, but its coming is delayed until we are better prepared.

When was the last time you received something that you didn't prepare for properly. What if you just climbed out of bed and without bathing or cleansing you showed up for a job interview in only your underwear? Would you get the job, most likely not. Even if it was something you wanted you wouldn't get it because you violated the law of being properly prepared. Just desiring something isn't enough. We must properly prepare to receive what we desire and ask for.

There are only a couple reasons why a person should not be at least fairly comfortable in a wealthy society. They lack understanding or in this case knowing the rules of the game. Or they are just lazy. This article is not to help the lazy, in most cases they won't read this article. No this article is intended to give people the understanding of the rules of the game. The law of success is a law. You must abide by the rules of this law to be successful.

Those of us who have learned the principals and have been down the path of success, are I believe obligated to achieve success so we can be of help to our fellow man. Recall the famous words of a great leader, Abraham Lincoln, "A poor person can never became rich by making a rich person poor." In the Bible it is written, do not forsake the poor. And that is so true, however, the blind can't lead the blind. If we are poor ourselves we can only minimally be of help to those who are poor. We cannot make the lazy person work, but we can pass our wisdom on to those who want to learn it.

So in conclusion it's really pretty simple, how we think ultimately controls our destiny for success or failure and if we gravitate toward negative thoughts we're headed toward failure. We must be very careful how we phrase things in our mind. We must constantly be on guard as it's so easy to let negative thoughts and doubts creep in. Every negative phrase we use like "I can't afford that" should be replaced with something positive like I choose not to buy it now but I will have it later. Thoughts like this build confidence.

Never and I repeat never should you use the words want or wanting or need or needing. Doing so programs your subconscious mind to be in want or need. (A wealthy person is not in want or in need.) I will or I'm going to have something is a better more positive choice. Saying positive affirmations for the purpose of speaking positive affirmations is of no value, they're only of value if they inspire confidence and belief.

Mental programming of positive thinking attracts success. Of high importance is a learned value system of wisdom and principals, of love and caring for others, that should guide our thoughts like the Biblical 10 Commandments. Who can forget the many evil men, that were guided by their own self-interests, regardless of how they hurt others, they thought they were right. They were confident and certainly attracted worldly success, but without a love for fellow humanity they reigned extreme misery on mankind (men like Hitler, Stalin, Mao and many more).

Thus I believe it is very important that what we do, we do with an attitude of love toward our fellow man.

Let me ask you a question, have you ever seen a totally confident person in all their actions who was not successful?

Remember, to attract success like it was metal filings and you were a magnet, practice the power of focusing your thoughts.

Nick's many years of nutrition and marketing expertise puts him in a special position to help people looking for a lucrative work at home Goji Juice Business.

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