The sweet walks on the beach while hands intertwined with one another could be the greatest and only memory you that you try to cherish each and everyday because it seems impossible to achieve this sweetness nowadays. You thought everything will always be perfect and you think that your marriage will not end up in tragedy. But now, all your wishes are starting to collapse. The firm wall that you tried to build in order to shelter your homes against infidelity is now crashing in front of your face and no matter how you try to stop hatred from taking its toil, you simply can't help it. You wanted to give up, your husband wanted to give up too but what about the kids? What about the love that you once shared? Can this marriage be saved?

Breathe in and out.

The hardest battle that any couple could face is the fight against the pangs of infidelity. Knowing that your husband had already tried to fool you has already destroyed the image of a faithful husband that you longed to have. If your emotion can be compared to a thing, it is most likely a glass that cannot be restored again since it was badly broken down into pieces. Infidelity is also the number one cause of divorce, the moment when they found out that their spouse is having an affair, and 9 out of 10 women would rather call it quit.

Can your marriage still be saved after the heartache? Even though it is the main reason why people get divorce, still it is not enough to give up all the years you've spend with one another. There are partners who had been unfaithful but feel a lot of remorse for the thing that they did. Being the one fooled, you need to ask yourself whether you can still bring back the trust if your husband will just put an effort to win you back. Also, you should ask yourself if you still love him.

Furthermore, analyze the problem. What are the reasons that lead your partner to cheat? Here are some possible answers to this question:

1) Dominating partner

2) Lack of sex

3) Low self esteem

4) Lack of care and concern that lead to emptiness inside

5) Lack of communication

6) Recurrent fights and disagreement

7) Rash behavior brought by alcohol

8) Wife that do not like to give birth

Analyzing the answer listed above can help you answer the question: can this marriage be saved? Of course, the reasons may also be other things. If your husband really wishes to bring you back, the first thing that he needs to do is to put an end to the affair.

Subsequently, can this marriage be saved? It really depends; it will take patience, time, and sincerity. If you try to put an effort, you will see that a good result later on. But of course, it is not always a one-way street; your partner should also cooperate with you and you both need to answer: "can this marriage be saved?"