When you were in a relationship, sometimes you could just feel that something wasn't going right... Maybe you started to panic, or maybe you started to lose hope. You didn't want to be at that stage where you were thinking about how to win back an ex... Did you have any of these signs that you saw which could have potentially leaded to your break up?

As you talked to your boyfriend or girlfriend on the phone, it seemed as though they wanted to hang up on you as quickly as possible. Perhaps you guys were talking for ten minutes and they kept on making up excuses like they needed to do laundry or they needed to talk to a friend but they really just wanted to watch TV. Other "trying to get off the phone" methods probably included not adding a lot to the conversation and replying in a "yes" and "that's right" attitude.

Another sign involves sexual issues. Remember when your girlfriend or boyfriend was the one who always initiated sex by being flirty around you? Now they just don't seem to that interested in it anymore. Sometimes you get to the point where you're hinting that you want sex, but that only makes you look desperate.

How about your guy's future? Perhaps you were really into them and you were thinking of settling down with them. You started to talk to them about how long you think the relationship would last, and if you were really going for it, you mentioned about marriage someday. But when they heard this, they tried to do everything they could to avoid the topic.

Feeling tension around your partner isn't a healthy sign either, especially when no one says anything about it. Instead, you guys indirectly tried to pry out information from each other, resulting in more tension. The reason why you guys did this was because no one trusted each other. You may be thinking that they might be doing something behind your back and they may be thinking the same with you. This usually leads to an argument that involves trust issues.

Finally, the worst sign of a bad relationship is just feeling uncomfortable towards each other. When you felt uncomfortable towards your girlfriend or boyfriend, you needed to ask yourself why you were still in the relationship with them. If it's just the attraction that was wearing out, try to work to work something out next time. Otherwise, they may just need time to think over things and give you some space.

If these signs actually did happen in your relationship that caused a breakup, then it would be wise to learn your mistakes for next time. Believe it or not, even after all these things that happened, you may still want to get back with your ex and give it a second try. Getting back with your ex, even after all of this, is a daring move on your part. But if you can solve these problems and prevent these kinds of signs to happen, then you can be on your way to a healthy and worthwhile relationship.