How To Deal With Realistic People
Those are the people you love dearly but don't know how to deal with them for you feel they are so far removed from what you call the "real" life that their reality seems an absurdity.
They are the kind of people you dread speaking with, for there is an almost absolute certainty that no matter the topic of the conversation, they will make sure to rain on your parade. You feel like you can't talk to them and confide in them and share your dreams and aspirations.
In fact, they make you feel silly. "What a nonsense you are talking about"... they repeat constantly. And you, out of love, continue sharing your dreams, forgetting that these are not the right people with whom you to share the desires of your heart.
You may say: "You know, I am going to buy a house in the mountains and transform it into a natural spa. And people will come from all over to receive the great services and products I will offer them." Now, you don't know how this is going to happen because you know that you attract what you focus upon and hence, sooner or later, this place will manifest in your life.
The realist will immediately retort or laugh: "Do you have money to buy such place? Do you know how much it costs to build such a place? Do you know what it takes to run it? How are you going to do this? Who is going to help you? Oh, please, stop being so unrealistic; stop dreaming"wake up!"
And you realize that, yet again, you put yourself in a situation where you must fight to keep your faith unblemished and intact. You know that indeed, there is a spiritual world full of wisdom that is constantly guiding you and that all you ever desire is yours for the taking.
You keep forgetting that they don't. They are "practical" people. What they see is what they get. They load themselves with the news because that shows reality. For them, real life is stressful, hard, difficult. They know better, or so they think. You, on the other hand, are this naïve and silly person who is out of touch with reality.
While you believe in synchronicity, they believe in coincidence; what you call manifestation, they can't explain and dismiss it saying: "it was a miracle" even though they don't believe in miracles.
To maintain a healthy relationship with this kind of people you need to establish some parameters and prepare yourself to deal with them.
So here are some suggestions for when you receive the dreadful question: How will you...blah, blah, blah:
1. Immediately visualize a purple cocoon surrounding yourself. It will protect you like a shield.
2. Immediately send this person you most positive energy, love, and a white bright light.
3. Immediately say to yourself: "All is well and I am safe."
4. Immediately change the topic of the conversation and veer it to whatever the person loves to do.
5. Soon after your contact ends, write down 5 things you appreciate about this person.
6. Forgive the person and situation and never forget to not give your pearls to the pigs.
You will soon see that this kind of communication will become very pleasant or cease altogether, for you have learned how to deal with the realistic people.
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