What Men Want - Decode Male Psychology
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Are you one of those women that has a great life, good friends and a successful career but has a hard time with men? You think that you have done all the right things but nothing works? Do you think that playing games isn't a road to lasting relationships? Here you are, financially independent, caring, competent and an all around nice girl. You don't play games. You respect your partner and are straightforward with him. You don't avoid his calls and when he has to change a date you are understanding and don't make a fuss.
Now you find that things have changed in the relationship. He becomes distant and his calls are not as frequent. He begins to cancel plans at the last minute. You want to get the relationship back to where it was so you start asking why, you call him more, and even buy him things. Now you are chasing him. Why wouldn't this man want you? You think you have it all together and you wonder what you could have possibly done wrong. All of a sudden you are unsure of yourself and start to feel guilty and have no idea why. You can only think that if you try harder you will find out the reason.
There is no doubt that you are a really good woman. You are perfect in every way and would make a wonderful wife and mother someday. What you don't understand is that whatever you have done in your professional life or making friends isn't going to work in your romantic relationships. It is true that men want to settle down with a woman that would be a good wife and mother. Men also want someone that cares, is dependable and who is loyal. In the beginning of a relationship though he isn't looking for a wife. He wants just the opposite. He wants to be challenged by someone who is elusive and not head over heels in love with him. He wants the mystery. Create this image by doing these things.
* Do your best to look sexy and classy.
* Be light-hearted and playful with him.
* At the beginning of your relationship you have to play hard to get.
* Wait for the man to ask you on a date but be flirty and friendly. If you have his interest, there's no question that he will ask you out.
* Wait at least an hour before returning his calls or texts. Remember that your life is busy and you are elusive and a desirable woman who can't just sit and wait for one man.
* Don't lavish him with presents or even E-cards or notes at t beginning of the relationship. Once he is really in love with you there will be plenty of time for those things.
* Make sure you start living and aren't chasing him.
Now you find that things have changed in the relationship. He becomes distant and his calls are not as frequent. He begins to cancel plans at the last minute. You want to get the relationship back to where it was so you start asking why, you call him more, and even buy him things. Now you are chasing him. Why wouldn't this man want you? You think you have it all together and you wonder what you could have possibly done wrong. All of a sudden you are unsure of yourself and start to feel guilty and have no idea why. You can only think that if you try harder you will find out the reason.
There is no doubt that you are a really good woman. You are perfect in every way and would make a wonderful wife and mother someday. What you don't understand is that whatever you have done in your professional life or making friends isn't going to work in your romantic relationships. It is true that men want to settle down with a woman that would be a good wife and mother. Men also want someone that cares, is dependable and who is loyal. In the beginning of a relationship though he isn't looking for a wife. He wants just the opposite. He wants to be challenged by someone who is elusive and not head over heels in love with him. He wants the mystery. Create this image by doing these things.
* Do your best to look sexy and classy.
* Be light-hearted and playful with him.
* At the beginning of your relationship you have to play hard to get.
* Wait for the man to ask you on a date but be flirty and friendly. If you have his interest, there's no question that he will ask you out.
* Wait at least an hour before returning his calls or texts. Remember that your life is busy and you are elusive and a desirable woman who can't just sit and wait for one man.
* Don't lavish him with presents or even E-cards or notes at t beginning of the relationship. Once he is really in love with you there will be plenty of time for those things.
* Make sure you start living and aren't chasing him.
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