People Don't Know You Are Ugly Until You Tell 'Em
Answer: It's what you project.
Did you know that?
Well, think about it for a minute. Someone new comes up to you and you turn away with thoughts like, *They won't like me. Someone will tell them about me, and even if they like me now, they won't like me then.*
How about when you talk to someone, you don't look them in the eyes? Your shoulders are slumped. You mumble or quickly run someone else down so the attention will be elsewhere. What kind of message does that shout?
*** Remember, it doesn't get much uglier than running people down. Why not build them up? The more you build someone up, the better you feel. The *uglies* fall away.
Haven't you seen a really terrific-looking blonde, brunette, or red-head that turned *ugly* the minute she opened her mouth?
Haven't you seen a picture of a hunk and you looked forward to seeing him, but when you finally do actually meet him, he shuffles over to you, head down, hands in pockets?
I know a guy who is 6'5" and good-looking. But looks don't cut it in real life where we are able to pick our friends. I pick friends who see the good things in life and think good thoughts, friends that I can trust *with the minds* of my children/grandchildren.
Are you the type of person people can trust with theirs? Walk and talk in the way that describes how you want to be, and you soon will be. Feel the change. Enjoy it.
If you like this technique, pass it on to a friend. Watch as their life changes for the better.
Thanks for reading.
Jan
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Jan Tincher, Master Neuro-Linguistic Programmer and nationally recognized expert in Hypnotherapy & Neuro-Linguistic Programming, teaches strategies and techniques that help people live better, happier lives, She studied under Richard Bandler and best-selling author, Anthony Robbins, and has had a successful practice for over 13 years. She has written hundreds of articles that show people how to work successfully with relationships, stress, weight, success, growing older, depression, fear, health, and much more. She is an award winning author, and you can read many of her articles at her web site "Tame Your Brain!" http://www.tameyourbrain.com
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