You know, it always amazes me how much time guys will spend have sex. But once they get into the bedroom, they don't make an effort to make it fun and exciting.

In essence they become selfish and only care about their own experience.

Why do I say this?

Well one MAJOR complaint I get from my female friends is most guys are completely unoriginal when it comes time to "do the deed". What's happening is many guys are receiving their sexual advice from friends or from pornography.

Ultimately this leads to the distorted view of sex.

Now I ask you my friend, which is more important:

A) Having a quick sex session where you're the only one who is satisfied.

OR

B) Having a great time where you're both satisfied and she tells ALL her friends how great you are in the sack.

Hopefully you picked choice B!

Now if you really want to be a provider of incredible sex, you have to know what you're doing. In this article, I'll provide you with a 5 step system that'll guarantee an incredible time in the bedroom.

If you follow this system, you'll definitely become a master of the bedroom!

Step 1- Set the right mood

Great sex starts before you initiate contact with a woman. If you want her to have a great time, you must create an atmosphere which will be both sensual and seductive. In fact, the right kind of environment can be a key element to enhancing her pleasure.

Now the best way to set things up is to darken the room, light some candles and put on good music. By doing this, you're putting her in the psychological mindset that she's about to have a relaxing but sexually charged experience.

Step 2- Kiss her and initiate foreplay

Once you've set up the seductive atmosphere you should initiate physical contact and initiate foreplay. In fact, I think foreplay is the best way for transitioning from a conversation to having sex.

So begin by start kissing her. My advice is to begin slowly then build up the intensity. Then when you've built up some serious heat, move on to other things like "heavy petting" and sensual massages.

Just remember foreplay is a crucial element for great sex so make sure you're focusing on her pleasure and building up intensity.

Step 3- Initiate oral sex

Once you've built up the passion of the pre sex session you should move on to giving her oral sex. Again remember to start slowly and focus on HER reactions.

It's well known that women like different things when receiving oral sex, so don't be afraid to experiment and find out what really "pushes her buttons".

When you see a positive reaction, keep doing whatever is driving her wild.

Step 4- Tease her before you initiate sex

As you reach the pinnacle of oral pleasure, start having sex.

Now one incredible technique to use at this time is to tease her. In other words, don't just start having sex without making her REALLY want it bad.

Try going slowly and initiate have sex, then stop! If you keep on starting and stopping she'll go crazy.

If you can tease a girl for a few minutes she won't be able to control her actions.

Step 5- Build up the intensity

Now that you're having sex, it's important to vary your pacing and the positions you're in. Again I want to emphasize the importance of concentrating on her pleasure and making sure she's having a good time.

So throughout the session build up speed, pull back and go slow. Follow this pattern till you both can't stop.

Knowing how to be a great lover to a woman is an important skill you must learn to develop. By following the 5 step plan I've outlined in this article, you'll be able to rock her world!