How to Create Instant Sexual Desire Around Women


by Scott J. Patterson - Date: 2007-04-17 - Word Count: 494 Share This!

Let me ask you a question…

Do you know why some guys can create instant sexual desire with women?

Well, you've probably noticed there are some men who can attract a woman with only a few words and gestures.  In fact, even if they're average looking, these guys now the secret to establishing an instant connection.

The secret is being able to show charisma around women.

So is this ability natural or is it learned?

Fortunately charisma is something which can be learned.  If you take the time to learn the core characteristics of charisma, you'll be able to create sexual desire around women.

Here are five ways you can do it:

1- Accept that it can be learned

Before you try to change your personality, you must first accept that charisma is something which you can learn.  If you REALLY don't think it'll work, then you'll probably fail.

Just understand that charisma is something that can work no matter what you're like.  There are a number of famous actors and celebrities who didn't start out as being charismatic.  But after going through coaching for their voice, body language and acting, they were able to transform themselves into a charismatic person.

2- Find your own style

Another way to be charismatic is to learn how to become your own person.  While it's important to model guys who show a natural ability, you should learn how to be your own person and find your own style.

For instance, if you're a naturally quiet person, then you should develop a calm, confident and charismatic personality. Instead of being the loud and outgoing person, you should develop a charisma which works for one-on-one interactions.

3- Show charismatic body language

Charisma is all about showing the right kind of body language.  A suave person is a guy who can show charisma with just his presence.  For instance, a charismatic person shows these traits:

ConfidenceA relaxed poseGood postureA positive expression with a smile

4- Be congruent

In order to be charismatic your words and actions must match your overall demeanor.  In other words, you need to be congruent throughout you entire lifestyle.

So instead of trying to "fake it till you make it", you should work on things which are holding you back from showing charisma.  If you can eliminate your sticking points and become truly confident in every situation, you'll develop this magnetic personality trait.

5- Be authoritative

When you're talking to a woman, don't be afraid to show a confidence in your words or actions.  By speaking about topics like an authority, you'll impress women with your confidence.

So no matter what you say, remember to show confidence.  In other words, if you act nervous around women, you won't be showing charisma.

As you can see from this article, charisma is something which can be learned.

If you take the time to develop these 5 basic traits, you'll be on your way towards being a charismatic guy.  Once this happens you'll become a guy who can create instant sexual desire around women.

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