Casual Sex - Reflections on Casual Encounters
In our world today, of a great many people living alone, casual sex in clubs and other places is not as uncommon as many people would believe.
Certainly there are clubs where causal sex is sought and offered, but also, there are times and places where causal sex just happens.
Read more so you are ready, and know what to do and how to react.
Social Mores
Depending on your society, sex can be a subject of taboo and restriction, or rather free and causing no special thought. If you are in a society where sex is highly regulated, then casual sex may not be for you, or in any event, you must be clever enough to consider the consequences.
In many areas, casual sex is considered a regular event.
If you are visiting a strange place, you should acquaint yourself BEFORE you go as to the social mores connected with casual sex.
Protection
With sexually transmitted disease in some parts of the world running to epidemic levels, unless you like playing Russian Roulette with your health and life, you must always be protected.
A simple condom is a start, but also some good reminders to try and avoid as much of an exchange of bodily fluids as possible.
The Quickie
If you are after an hour or two in a bed, then casual sex is not your thing.
If you have managed to remove yourself and your partner from one location to the other, then you have moved out of the realm of casual sex into something more structured.
In casual sex, we are looking at a "quickie' of the 3 to 10 minute sexual encounter.
It is usually done with the positions described below, and over almost before it begins.
It is seldom the woman will finish, but quite possible on the action (thrusting) and technique of the man.
The man will have no problem finishing in most cases.
Best Positions for Casual Sex
The best position for casual sex (where lying down on a bed is not possible) is the Standing Spoons, and Pinned against the Wall.
Standing Spoons. The woman will turn her back to the man, and depending on the woman's height (including high heel shoes in the equation), she will adjust her buttocks to align with the man's erect penis.
Usually the woman will bend her knees a bit, the man will grab the woman around her waist, and the woman will assist in the penetration.
Once penetrated, the couple will move as if they were dancing, but in a coordinated movement, with the man thrusting and woman repelling to the coming thrust.
This causes a great stimulation of the woman's clitoris, and if the position is well done, the g-spot as well. It is possible for a normal sexually experienced woman to orgasm in about 7 minutes on the average.
Pinned Against the Wall. As the name suggests, the woman will face a wall, and place her hands on the wall, supporting her from being too crushed.
The woman will spread her legs and squat just a little (if required) for the man to penetrate.
Once penetrated, the man must do all the work, as the woman is not a good position to help. This is a good position however for g-spot stimulation.
The man should not thrust violently, but offer a slow and steady rhythmic thrusting, and in about 10 to 12 minutes the woman should also reach an orgasm (if the man can last that long).
Remember to always be protected, as you life may be in the balance.
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