Who to believe in love today when all women have commercial thoughts and quite careerist and tough vision of life. How should you read the signals that you get from your Russian date?

The first signs of your girl's feelings will appear on phone calls. Telephone or alternative voice chats are very good to understand what her plan for the relationship is and what actually she expects from you. Unlike emails or normal paper letters, during a real conversation, she will not have time for selecting words with double meaning and pretence.

If she is serious towards this and not doing it just because she wants to fill in her life with a little romance, she will not find excuses to end the phone call. Of course the time difference is very big and when it is 10 at night in Russia it is early in the morning in America. There might be a day when she is not in a chatty mood because being tired, but constant excuses should make you suspicious.

If she says that she does not feel comfortable speaking at particular moment, ask her when it will be okay to call her. Many women live with their families and are nervous when they know that their parents are next to them, listening to the conversation.

You can suggest a keyword or key phrase which both of you will use when the moment is not suitable for phone romance. If she agrees with you on this, your communication will run smoothly.

Family is playing a major role in the life of Russian women. They respect elders and feel deep emotional connection with them. When they mention their family and introduce you to them, be sure that they like you and you are already considered close enough to be trusted and accepted in their world.

A good sign is when you call her on the phone and when her mother or father answers it to greet you with a friendly "Hi". The old generation in Russia does not speak English or finds it very hard language, but the fact that they recognize your voice and say hello to you means that your girlfriend has shared with them who are you and what makes you special.

Maybe soon you will get invitation to visit Russia and meet them in person which is great step for you and your girl.

People there are afraid of gossips and until you are introduced to the family it is better to stay in a hotel. Later when you know them, probably they will ask you to move to their place for the rest of your stay.

Russians are hospitable and warm people and soon you will be convinced that language barriers will not stop you loving them. Usually when you are invited for a family dinner, you will stay drinking vodka or other alcohol with the father while your future mother in law and your bride are cooking fantastic pirogs (a kind of typical pie with jam or cheese) in the kitchen.

Dating Russian girls can be a rich emotional experience. I wish you will find this woman who will make you believe that love exists and will support you until the end of your life.