Want Success? Raise The Bar
Raising the bar means just that: raising your self-expectations higher. People tend to get into ruts of performance. They accept their: $50,000 job, 50 million dollar business, being No two, the inevitable loss of some kind, or retirement from anywhere between 45 and 65 years of age.
I say: no way. I can change the status quo, achieve more, become better, decide to do more with less, pour it on and I can raise my personal bar to any position I choose. If do not cross the bar, it doesn't matter. Life is not about crossing the bar, it is about the thrill, joy and pleasure in trying to cross the bar. There is a distinct difference here, one that I want to ensure you understand. Having goals is important, but working toward goals is more important.
Where is your bar set?
Low enough so you can have a life filled with accomplishments? So high that you continually stretch yourself to climb higher. Somewhere in between: safe yet a little challenging?
Each of us can do more. I am not suggesting you become a workaholic. I love to play, relax, read, travel and do nothing. But I am also a believer in pouring it on. Most of us could accomplish a great deal more than we do. We only need to create the desire, get organized, have balance in our lives, and go for it.
Where in your life could you be accomplishing more? In your career? Personal life? Outside interests? A new hobby? A new sport?
Don't wait. The clock is ticking. Before you know it you may be too old, too tired, too bored, or too sick to pour it on. And don't worry about missing the mark or failing.
You need to fail often to succeed sooner. (compliments of a dear friend)
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Tim Connor, CSP is an internationally renowned sales, management and leadership speaker, trainer and best selling author. Since 1981 he has given over 3500 presentations in 21 countries on a variety of sales, management, leadership and relationship topics. He is the best selling author of over 60 books including; Soft Sell, That's Life, Peace Of Mind, 81 Challenges Managers Face and Your First Year In Sales. He can be reached at tim@timconnor.com, 704-895-1230 or visit his website at http://www.timconnor.com
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