How To Look Energetic and Popular to Game Girls at Party & Clubs


by Lex Hitman - Date: 2007-02-13 - Word Count: 476 Share This!

If you are a regular at party and clubbing scenes, you know exactly that they have a very different matrix than other social gathering place, such as café. Everything goes very fast and dynamic there that a person who's only been the first time there would find difficult to get along with the environment.

And what happens when you spot on a group of beautiful girls dancing quite a distance from your place?

It's hard enough to feel belonged there, it's even more bizarre to try out your gaming skills on such alien ground. That's why there are only few people who can generate gaming results in parties. Those who are already in the know would keep gaining and doubling their score cards, leaving the lossy and wallflowers behind.

Personally, I don't think there is such thing as a perfect strategy for clubbing scenes. What we often claim as 'perfect' usually only means that it deliver more successes than the other. Even after that, you still need to identify yourself to the strategy you're going to take and improvise as you proceed with it. Just because it works with one people, doesn't say anything that it would do the same for you.

However, in my experience, there are at least some basic golden rules that could be easily applied to everyone who's looking to improve their clubbing charisma.

Here are some tips to build your energy for party and dance floors:

- Come a bit late. Watching people who are already into the music would definitely give you a kick start to get into the same tune. If you arrive before the party begins, you're going to get accustomed to the tension and inactivity that it would be harder to 'switch' into the party mood then.

- Greet and gesture the workers as you enter the room. Bouncers, bartenders, dancers, DJs, they are all the 'owner' of the place. Just a simple "Hey, wussup!" and "Looking crowded tonight," would boost your mood even more. You need to build enough momentum so that you can feel as confident as you need.

- Start touring the place, talking to anyone interesting. While some people call this as 'vibing,' I call it 'bouncing' as the the idea is to bounce all the spots to have small talk with people you find interesting. You don't need lengthy talks, just three to five exhanges but done almost everywhere.

You know you're doing this right when you feel somewhat invincible compared to other mortals according to the simple structure there.

That's what I usually call as the Glossy state.

Not only you will be seen as the most popular guy in the room, but you also would have an automatic working momentum that keeps on pushing you into approaching girls until your legs fail you. As simple as this may sound, those three steps above will help you achieve amazing things in your clubbing adventure.

Have fun!


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Lex is the Lifestyle & Romantic Excellence instructor for Hitman System, a revolutionary training group dedicated for Indonesian males to achieve the best solutions in various dating issues. Visit Hitman System now to read more advice =>http://www.hitmansystem.com

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