All or Nothing at All
It is funny that you talk about how you wish your dream to come true in terms of relationships. You wish to find your soulmate; you wish to be happy ever after; you wish to create a beautiful family; you wish to have great sex; you wish to have eternal romance; you want to fall in love you want to love and be loved; you wish and wish and wish.
And while you only dream about a perfect relationship, time passes by. While you wait or think about the impossibility of having it all, a belief that has been ingrained in your mind since birth, you just go on and take one day at a time and one relationship at a time. And therefore, you get into relationships that are very good at the beginning, say the first 2 weeks or the first 2 years but then gives you this kind of bitter after taste.
If you happen to fall in love, then the relationship seems just perfect. This is it! This is the one you were looking for. This is the love of your life; you need not worry any longer. Everything is pink, for you only wear your pink eyeglasses when you fall in love. Everything is just how it is supposed to be. There is harmony in the universe.
Then, the day you least expect, your glasses fall off your face. Pink is no more and because you haven't really attracted the perfect person, what you have in front of you is someone else. Suddenly, you realize that this person is not ready for the commitment you wanted, or the person has someone else, or the person lacks values that are important to you; or the person does not give you now what they did earlier; or the person slowly is withdrawing their love and attention and so on.
And because you want to make the relationship going, this is what you do: you work, you give in, you give up, you wait, you let go, you dismiss, you compromise, you quit, you resign and so on. All in the name of a relationship that was not supposed to be in the first place. In other words: you settle for less.
Now, why do you do that for? Are you not important enough? Are you afraid you will not find another person? Don't you think you deserve better? Don't you think there are other ways to receive financial security or any other kind of security? Don't you think you will be able to have fun with someone else? Do you think you are at the end of your rope? Do you think you are too old, or too fat, or too unattractive, or too poor, or too dull? Do you think another opportunity to find romance will never arise?
Stop that! And believe that you can indeed attract perfection in your life. Nothing is impossible! The world is at your command. You just have to ask. So, if this relationship is not giving you complete satisfaction, utmost happiness, and total joy, it is time to move on. As you leave those who do not want to make you their priority in life, keep this as your motto: "Those who do not want me do not deserve me."
Yes, you can and should have it all. If this person can't give it to you, then, yes, better having nothing at all. Open yourself to the infinite blessings of the universe; forgive and move on. The best and perfect relationship will happen to you. You just need to prepare yourself.
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