Learn Smart Parenting And Understand Your Child


by Helen Cadd - Date: 2010-05-08 - Word Count: 413 Share This!

Raising your children is difficult. Many people without children don't understand this and possibly you did not realize this before you had children. People with no children generally know about food, shelter, clothing and education but love, care, affection and guidance are equally or possibly more important.

Learn Smart Parenting and you will realize that you should also learn genuinely understanding your child and his behaviour. If you understand your child you will realize why your child behaves the way they do. A good parent-child relationship is essential for understanding your child and should start in early childhood and continue into adulthood. If a genuine understanding between you and your child starts early, your children will inevitably have the same sort of understanding with their own children.

You child will think if you do not really listen and strive to understand what he is saying, who will. You must be willing to give the necessary help and support like moral,emotional or financial support. As a loving parent, should always strive to make your child feel loved and appreciated. If you have no idea how your child is thinking or feeling, how could you possibly extend appropriate or necessary support?

Understanding your child will help him develop a positive and outgoing personality, help him do better at school, and develop better leadership skills. He will also have a more positive attitude to life and have higher principals in his dealings with others.

If you Learn Smart Parenting you will understand your child well you can probably identify possible problems and concerns your child may have. These problems and concerns to you may seem minor but to a child they are never minor. Many of the problems that your child has, you have had yourself but because of your many more years of experience you know how to solve the problem, your child has not had the same experience as you have. Your child is just beginning life, while you as an adult have probably experienced the same thing already.

You should always be helpful and approachable to your child and he should always feel very welcome in asking you questions, in seeking advice, or getting guidance whenever he needs it. Never make him feel intimated, annoyed, and scared of you.

Remember, if you don't understand and help your child, and give guidance and advise, somebody else will. This advise or guidance or help may not always be in the best interest of either you or your child!

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