How To Impress Her On Your First Date
- Date: 2007-06-25 - Word Count: 389
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Sometimes, a guy just tries too hard in order to impress the girl on the first date. He will be always thinking of the "coolest" answer that will "impress" the girl. But mind you, by doing this; you will only screw this up.
Let me just share with you some of the signs when a guy tries too hard to impress a girl:
1. When the girl asks him a question, he will take a while to answer as he will tend to come out with the "coolest" answer to "impress" her.
2. He never makes fun of the woman because he is afraid that he may upset her.
3. He tries to figure out what the woman likes to hear and where the woman loves to go.
4. He acts cool and comes across as "formal".
The above examples are normally what a guy will do when he is trying too hard to please or impress the girl on the first date. Surprising enough, those are big turn-offs to women.
So what exactly a guy needs to do in order to score well on the first date? Below are just some pointers that you can take note of:
1. Be yourself and keep it casual. Do not be too formal, but being polite and gentleman is a must. Actions like holding the door for her, slowing down your pace while walking with her, etc, will make the girl feel good about you.
2. Be clean. First impression is very important. So make sure that you put on a nice shirt and bottom. Have a good bath before you meet her. Be sure not to spray too much cologne as sometimes having too much will make you smell bad.
3. Always talk. Awkward silences are terrible on dates. You will need to be creative and have the initiative here. Ask her simple questions about herself, but just not to make it sound like an interrogation.
4. Walk her up to her door. Tell her how much you have enjoyed the date with her, and give her a hug or a good night kiss. Before you go, tell her that you want to know if she would go out with you again sometime soon.
5. Once you reach home, give her a text message. If she has not tell you whether she will go out with you again, it is the best time to ask her now.
Let me just share with you some of the signs when a guy tries too hard to impress a girl:
1. When the girl asks him a question, he will take a while to answer as he will tend to come out with the "coolest" answer to "impress" her.
2. He never makes fun of the woman because he is afraid that he may upset her.
3. He tries to figure out what the woman likes to hear and where the woman loves to go.
4. He acts cool and comes across as "formal".
The above examples are normally what a guy will do when he is trying too hard to please or impress the girl on the first date. Surprising enough, those are big turn-offs to women.
So what exactly a guy needs to do in order to score well on the first date? Below are just some pointers that you can take note of:
1. Be yourself and keep it casual. Do not be too formal, but being polite and gentleman is a must. Actions like holding the door for her, slowing down your pace while walking with her, etc, will make the girl feel good about you.
2. Be clean. First impression is very important. So make sure that you put on a nice shirt and bottom. Have a good bath before you meet her. Be sure not to spray too much cologne as sometimes having too much will make you smell bad.
3. Always talk. Awkward silences are terrible on dates. You will need to be creative and have the initiative here. Ask her simple questions about herself, but just not to make it sound like an interrogation.
4. Walk her up to her door. Tell her how much you have enjoyed the date with her, and give her a hug or a good night kiss. Before you go, tell her that you want to know if she would go out with you again sometime soon.
5. Once you reach home, give her a text message. If she has not tell you whether she will go out with you again, it is the best time to ask her now.
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