You Don't Need a Rainbow to Find Your Pot of Gold


by Lori Radun - Date: 2007-04-04 - Word Count: 957 Share This!

It's not just leprechauns that have pots of gold. We all have a pot of gold if only we take the time to recognize it. All around us and within us are riches that most days we ignore. Pause for a moment and come on a journey with me to find your pot of gold.

Finding your Treasures
Your treasures are those people, places or things that are near and dear to your heart. What's important to you? Certainly your children or a spouse would make this list. Maybe it's a friend that always remembers your birthday, or the Starbucks coffee girl that always brightens your day with a smile. Besides my own family, I love my church family. Anyone who shares their heart with me is held close to me. This past weekend I led a women's retreat, and my heart was filled from all the wonderful women I met throughout the weekend. What places in your life bring you joy or peace? Maybe it's nature, a special room in your home, or a favorite restaurant. For me, when I lay down in my bed to read and relax, I feel blessed. My bed is soft, cozy and warm. What values strike a chord with you? Perhaps it is love, honesty or creativity. Or maybe it is adventure, peace, or intimacy. Connect with and protect those ideals in your life and you will experience richness.

The Precious Moments
Everyday, there are moments in time that are just like pieces of gold. However, most of the time, we are too busy to capture them. Yesterday, I had many of those moments. I watched my five year old perform silly tricks with silly names on the bed. I enjoyed moments of relaxation because I gave myself the gift of a housecleaner. While shopping for medicine at the drugstore, I realized the Easter candy was out. One of my favorite candies is Robin's eggs. I indulged and bought a bag - it only happens once a year! I marveled at my teenager's fashion sense. He is picking out his own clothes now, and I must admit, he has sharp taste. Gone are the days of shorts and t-shirts, and me telling him, "That doesn't match". Now, he meticulously selects the perfect pair of cargo shorts with a matching "Apt. 9" polo shirt. Slow down, take a look around, and savor those precious moments.

Identifying your Gifts and Talents
Also, in your pot of gold are those gifts and talents God blessed you with. What are they? Maybe he gave you a compassionate heart or a good listening ear. Perhaps you can sing like a bird or you have a knack for organization. Sit down and make a list of all your strengths and talents. Stretch yourself and don't stop until you have reached 50 gifts within yourself. Next, ask five of the closest people to you to make a list of what they see in you. Chances are, they will see things in yourself that you don't. Now that you can see how richly blessed you are, focus on that, instead of your shortcomings.

Creating and Protecting Your Memories
Everyday, we have the opportunity to create special memories. We can turn an ordinary day into an extraordinary day just by focusing on creating memories. The other day, my best friend sent me pictures of her three little girls all having a tea party at home. What did it take to create this memory? It took a little imagination, a lot of love, a few moments of time, and a digital camera. My five year old loves cars! One day I had an idea that delighted him immensely! We separated all his cars (and he has a lot of cars) by type of car and then took pictures of all the different categories...emergency vehicles, pick up trucks, sports cars, race cars, etc. Time goes by so fast, and if we are not proactive about creating these special memories, you'll miss them. So get out your creativity, a camera and a journal, and start filling your pot of gold.

Giving a Voice to Your Dreamer
As memories represent the past, your dreams represent the future. What do you dream of being or doing one day? I talk to so many moms who have lost their ability to connect with what they are passionate about. It's not that the passions and dreams are missing - they are just buried. Maybe that critical inner voice has discouraged you from dreaming. Our dreams and passions give us hope and joy! Don't let that part of you die. I dream of becoming a popular speaker and inspiring moms wherever I go. I dream of owning a motor home one day and traveling all around the country. I dream of writing a book one day. I am passionate about reading, singing, and personal growth. Dig deep and find your dreams and passions that are lying on the bottom of your pot of gold.

Your pot of gold is not at the end of a rainbow. It's right there with you. Your pot of gold is your life with all the people, places and things that are important to you. It is all those precious moments in time that no one can take away from you. Your pot of gold contains all the gifts, strengths and talents that are right there inside you. It contains all the special memories, the passions of your heart, and dreams that have yet to be realized. What kind of insurance policy will you put on your pot of gold?

Lori Radun, CEC - certified life coach for moms. To receive her FREE newsletter, FREE Guilt-free Parenting 4-part mini eCourse and the FREE special report "155 Things Moms Can Do To Raise Great Children", go to http://www.true2youlifecoaching.com

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