The following article is one of a series of articles which focus on building or regaining Self Esteem, motivating and empowering men to deal with the very sensitive subject of their Sexual Health. This empowering article on men's sexual health was written in response to questions which have been asked on topics related to Men's Issues as well as address common challenges that people have with this subject. I sincerely hope that you find the following information of value.

Hot Massage Tips: Sensual Massage

Carrying on the theme of many of my articles, this mini series on using the techniques of massage further emphasizes the importance and the benefits of taking things slow and easy. This approach will always result in a far more enjoyable experience for both and your partner.

Let's set the scene.

Whether the thought of sexual intercourse is on your mind or not, you should know by now the value of putting her first and making her feel important. So, why not surprise her with a beautiful, romantic dinner - you know what I mean - cozy, intimate, candlelit, where you can focus all your attention on her.

She's already feeling good. Now make her feel even better.

Before we get to the details, Sensual massage is not something to be rushed. If it's worth doing, do it properly. Sensual massage takes quite some time and, now comes the bit I like, it involves a lot of touching, touching in the most intimate places.

Forget about everything else in the world. You have to focus on one thing and one thing only, the beautiful body in front of you. Believe me, she will know what her body is doing to you just lying there. As you touch, as you explore, it will drive you even more crazy but she will love this wonderful attention as she starts to feel hot and sexy and wanted.

I know I said to forget about sexual intercourse. What I really meant was instead of thinking about your average session, Sensual massage is all about the best sex possible. It's about heightening the passion within both of you, it's about awakening all the senses as you'll find out when you read on and, ultimately, it's about an explosive, totally satisfying orgasm.

For me, there are a few prerequisites to a successful Sensual massage. First of all, romantic music (make sure you know what she likes), scented candles or incense, your favorite massage oils and, sorry to get all practical, clean towels and clean sheets - you are both going to get rather messy and just a wee bit slippery by the end of the session.

Ready? Wait, just slow down. Start your Sensual massage by massaging softly and gently. The goal at this point isn't arousal (at least not in her); the goal is to help her relax and to start building the mood. The rest will definitely follow:

Now, begin to tease your lover.

You are going to hate me but I want you to still keep it slow. Teasing means almost but not quite. Take long strokes, build your rhythm and focus on all the erogenous zones except her breasts and vagina. As you do this, rub your body against hers, keep the rhythm going, stroking her beautiful body.

Now, I wonder who's being teased the most!!!

O.K. I know you're ready so let's get to the most important part of the Sensual massage.

No, don't speed things up. Keep the same rhythm, the same pace. Remember your job is to make her feel important. Even though you can tell with every stroke that she now wants you, ask her if she has enjoyed the massage and if she wants you to get even more intimate. Chances are it's going to be a rhetorical question anyway but you will definitely know whether to proceed or not.

When your lover says yes, it's now time to massage her private parts starting with the outer lips and finishing with the clitoris and G-spot.

This is when you'll both discover why it was important to take your time and how potent a Sensual massage can be in arousing the deepest desires in both you and your lover.

Remember, it's about heightening the passion within both of you, it's about awakening all the senses and, ultimately, it's about an explosive, totally satisfying orgasm.

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