What You Should Say To A Woman The First Time You Talk To Her On The Phone
- Date: 2007-08-20 - Word Count: 454
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You got a woman's number about a week ago. You've called her a few times with no luck and she isn't returning your calls. Typically when this happens, it's because you've come across as too "needy". This is a great way to drive women away.
Let's dig a bit deeper. There is one saying that has made a lot of businessmen rich: "Find a need and fill it". In other words, it's almost impossible to create a need. Or make someone feeling a certain way... unless they are already inclined to feel that way.
Here's were it gets tricky. Most women, if they are willing to give you their phone, are inclined to liking you. So that's good. Now you need to take that feeling and heighten it.
I call it the "free sample". Supermarkets use it to give you a little taste of what they have... to let you think about how good it was... and when your taste buds go into a frenzy... they are there to solve your problem.
Let's translate that to the world of attraction. If you are calling less, and coming across as comfortable and laid back, you are giving her a tasty free sample. If you call often, or seem too interested (or nervous) you are leaving a bad taste in her mouth.
Think about it like this: to set up a date, how much time do you need? Maybe two minutes. Surely, no more than five. So talk to her for five minutes to set up the date. After that get off the phone. You have given her your free sample. The date is where she can enjoy the whole thing.
Women will avoid calls from men who "phone trap" them. In other words, they drag on conversations and don't make it easy for women to get off the phone. Needy, needy, needy!
So, let's conclude this on the right foot. Get a woman's number. Call her once to set up a date. Don't call her again until after the date. Be cool and comfortable, not needy. If she gives you her number and you can't get a hold of her, don't sweat it.Call her a few times, but do so in a confident and funny manner. If she doesn't answer the first time, call back a few days later and say, "Wow, playing hard to get already? Call me." Be funny and persistent with it. If you don't get a response fairly soon, move on. Go get some another girls number.
And when you call her, just be your cool and confident self.
Kurt Dight has created a free 5 day mini course in "how to seduce almost any woman". It is available for instant access only for a limited time at http://www.dating-secrets2.com/
Let's dig a bit deeper. There is one saying that has made a lot of businessmen rich: "Find a need and fill it". In other words, it's almost impossible to create a need. Or make someone feeling a certain way... unless they are already inclined to feel that way.
Here's were it gets tricky. Most women, if they are willing to give you their phone, are inclined to liking you. So that's good. Now you need to take that feeling and heighten it.
I call it the "free sample". Supermarkets use it to give you a little taste of what they have... to let you think about how good it was... and when your taste buds go into a frenzy... they are there to solve your problem.
Let's translate that to the world of attraction. If you are calling less, and coming across as comfortable and laid back, you are giving her a tasty free sample. If you call often, or seem too interested (or nervous) you are leaving a bad taste in her mouth.
Think about it like this: to set up a date, how much time do you need? Maybe two minutes. Surely, no more than five. So talk to her for five minutes to set up the date. After that get off the phone. You have given her your free sample. The date is where she can enjoy the whole thing.
Women will avoid calls from men who "phone trap" them. In other words, they drag on conversations and don't make it easy for women to get off the phone. Needy, needy, needy!
So, let's conclude this on the right foot. Get a woman's number. Call her once to set up a date. Don't call her again until after the date. Be cool and comfortable, not needy. If she gives you her number and you can't get a hold of her, don't sweat it.Call her a few times, but do so in a confident and funny manner. If she doesn't answer the first time, call back a few days later and say, "Wow, playing hard to get already? Call me." Be funny and persistent with it. If you don't get a response fairly soon, move on. Go get some another girls number.
And when you call her, just be your cool and confident self.
Kurt Dight has created a free 5 day mini course in "how to seduce almost any woman". It is available for instant access only for a limited time at http://www.dating-secrets2.com/
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