Your Ideal Partner: Finding Mr. or Ms. Right
I invite you to create a notebook or a page on your computer to record your thoughts/ideas/shifts and progress. Keep this notebook for the year and you'll see a major positive shift in your life!
YOUR IDEAL PARTNER
Have you ever sat down and really looked at what you value in a partner? I want you to spend the next week discovering what you really want and need. We'll assume you're coming from a healthy place with strong boundaries and standards.
Think about the most wonderful people in your life. What characteristics, values, communication skills, attributes, and abilities do these people have? What makes them such outstanding people? What attracts you to them? How do you feel when you're with them?
Now think about the qualities you want in your ideal mate. List those qualities.
EXPECTING & DESERVING
Once you have your list of qualities, it's time to set up positive expectations and belief that you deserve a relationship that is that good! Hold this thought/belief in your mind. Expect that it will happen at any moment. Get ready for some exciting new changes!
WHO DO YOU HAVE TO BE?
Now I want you to list what you have to do or be to attract your ideal partner. Many of my clients have: Released the ideas that all men are bad, gay or married; Stopped equating love with pain; Released the idea that all women are gold diggers, shallow and self involved; Upgraded their appearance; Focused on their strengths etc.
Your Turn - What do you have to release, add, upgrade, change in order to attract your ideal partner?
What is your level of willingness to make these changes?
Write down your changes and make the commitment to make those changes.
GET OUT AND REMAIN OPEN
Mr. or Ms. "Right" is not typically going to knock on your door. You have to put yourself out there.
There was a young women who prayed daily, "Please God, please. Let me win the lottery. I just want to win so I could enjoy my life." She prayed day in and day out. After about a year she finally said, "God, I guess you don't hear me or care about me. I haven't won the lottery yet."
God then spoke to her, "I could have helped you if you had actually purchased the lottery ticket."
You have to do your part. Get out there. Be out in the world with an attitude of approachability, fun and attraction.
Conscious loving brings a shift in all of your loving relationships. When you know what you want and become the person you want to be, you attract quality loving people into your life.
Copyright 2007, Iris Fanning. All Rights Reserved Worldwide. Reprint Rights: You may reprint this article as long as you leave all of the links active, do not edit the article in any way and give author name credit.
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Dr. Iris Fanning is a Nationally recognized Success Coach. Dr. Fanning is a graduate of Coach University, holds an Honorary Doctorate in Divinity, M.A. in Psychology, Counseling & Guidance and a B.S. in Psychology. Additionally Iris is the self published author and an in demand public speaker. Individual and group coaching can help you create the changes you desire. http://www.irisfanning.com
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