Sexuality, 7 Ways to Great Sex


by SHAWN COLLINS - Date: 2008-09-23 - Word Count: 376 Share This!

Sevens ways to great sex

Protect Yourself If you are not in a long-term relationship with this person, and/or do not know his/her sexual history, use a condom! I know you think no one here has AIDS or gonorrhea. You don't actually know that. Besides, chlamydia is real and not uncommon.

If you are in a long-term relationship, the risk of pregnancy might be more than you think. The pill does provide less than a 1 percent chance of becoming pregnant - IF USED PERFECTLY. How many women out there actually use it perfectly? The typical failure rate is 5 percent per year. Do the math - if you have sex 20 times relying only on the pill, you aren't completely unlikely to get pregnant. Scary, I know.

Think ahead Are you going to regret this tomorrow? 15 minutes from now? If you are - don't do it. It probably isn't worth it, no matter how great the sex is.

Don't be drunk The chances of regret are much higher, and if you don't remember it anyway, what is the point? Especially since you might not remember if you used protection.

Know yourself Guys, most of you have this down. You know exactly what you like. Girls, maybe you could learn something from the guys. Don't consider it masturbation; consider it research.

Be vocal Once you know what you like don't be afraid to tell the other person - constructively. It can be very reassuring to the other person, and if you say it right, even a turn on. Just don't bark commands like a drill sergeant.

Know his/her intentions Not only should you make sure that he/she wants something more than sex if you do; if you don't want more than sex make sure he/she doesn't either.

Lubricate Most lubrication that comes on condoms isn't enough. The condom is much less likely to break with a little extra water-based lubricant. I have known girls who say that sex without extra lubricant is painful for them. Everyone's bodies work differently.

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