Snag The Man - The Right Mindset Is You Friend
- Date: 2009-05-03 - Word Count: 552
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Are you a quality woman who is just not satisfied with their dating life? How does a guy just fall out of love? What happens when a guy loses interest or acts distant? The first thing a woman will ask herself is if she did something that made this happen. At this point, women will fall into one of two categories. The first one is searching for answers. Being in the self-doubt phase during a breakup, they really don't want to end the relationship but they know that the guy has moved on. They want answers so they can accept this breakup allowing them to move on.
As for the second category, these are the women that have been hurt deeply. They decide to try the approaches listed in books like The Rules or He's Just Not That Into You. Now these women just want to spend time on guys that are already attracted to them, and already want them. By doing this, they think that it will be safe and they won't have to feel the frustrations and rejection they already experienced. Basically, it's a safe zone when the guy you are seeing likes you a lot. This is a game of waiting for a guy to approach you and take the initiative for you.
But how do you feel about being so passive? Are you willing to just wait for the love of your life to come to you? It would be so much more fun to playfully engage a guy of your dreams rather than sitting by and waiting to be noticed by someone that isn't the man of your dreams. It would be much better to spend your time with that one special guy you've been looking for.
It's a dangerous belief that things will just fall into place when the right person comes along. Understanding the psychology of the opposite sex is probably the only way that dating can be successful as well as relationships. You can't believe in magic and this will just happen to you. To get the relationship you have always desired it will require practice, learning and experience.
Some of the lucky few are naturals. Perhaps they learned this art of attraction from parents or siblings. Attracting a guy could be learned from observing from the time you are a child. Most of us aren't that lucky though. You have to set out to learn about romance, dating and even relationships and, of course, attracting a man and keeping him.
There are parallels with your love life and your career. After devoting many years of education, working long hours and building your network you have succeeded at your career. Most women will agree that romance and a relationship is just as important as their careers. There is so many years and effort put into your career. You have to come to the same conclusion that your personal life deserves just as much attention and cultivation that your career does.
Now you have to put that effort and time into understanding men as you did when learning the skills of your profession. The power is found in knowledge. This is also very true in the relationship business. If you want to be that irresistible woman with the love of her life, change your mindset now and learn how to be.
As for the second category, these are the women that have been hurt deeply. They decide to try the approaches listed in books like The Rules or He's Just Not That Into You. Now these women just want to spend time on guys that are already attracted to them, and already want them. By doing this, they think that it will be safe and they won't have to feel the frustrations and rejection they already experienced. Basically, it's a safe zone when the guy you are seeing likes you a lot. This is a game of waiting for a guy to approach you and take the initiative for you.
But how do you feel about being so passive? Are you willing to just wait for the love of your life to come to you? It would be so much more fun to playfully engage a guy of your dreams rather than sitting by and waiting to be noticed by someone that isn't the man of your dreams. It would be much better to spend your time with that one special guy you've been looking for.
It's a dangerous belief that things will just fall into place when the right person comes along. Understanding the psychology of the opposite sex is probably the only way that dating can be successful as well as relationships. You can't believe in magic and this will just happen to you. To get the relationship you have always desired it will require practice, learning and experience.
Some of the lucky few are naturals. Perhaps they learned this art of attraction from parents or siblings. Attracting a guy could be learned from observing from the time you are a child. Most of us aren't that lucky though. You have to set out to learn about romance, dating and even relationships and, of course, attracting a man and keeping him.
There are parallels with your love life and your career. After devoting many years of education, working long hours and building your network you have succeeded at your career. Most women will agree that romance and a relationship is just as important as their careers. There is so many years and effort put into your career. You have to come to the same conclusion that your personal life deserves just as much attention and cultivation that your career does.
Now you have to put that effort and time into understanding men as you did when learning the skills of your profession. The power is found in knowledge. This is also very true in the relationship business. If you want to be that irresistible woman with the love of her life, change your mindset now and learn how to be.
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