Is She Faking It?


by Suzie Harris - Date: 2007-05-01 - Word Count: 436 Share This!

At some stage in their life, most women have faked an orgasm. There can be different reasons for this:

* She may genuinely not be able to orgasm during sex and doesn't want her partner to know.

* She is not in the mood, is distracted and wants it to end.

* She doesn't want to ruin his ego and therefore fakes it.

* She may have had a lot to drink and knows that she is unlikely to cum

* She may feel as though she is disappointing her partner, and therefore fakes it.

While it is sometimes hard to know if she is faking it, there are some signs that can help give you an indication. Here are some tips help you know if she is faking it:

* If she is not wet before sex, you know she is not turned on and therefore not enjoying herself as much as she could be.

* If she suddenly orgasms when you have been having sex for a short amount of time, this can be another indication that she is faking it.

* If she doesn´t seem into it and is distracted during sex, and then suddenly comes, likelihood is she is faking it.

* If she makes a loud scream that sounds fake, likelihood it is fake.

* Generally, for women to peak during intercourse, they really need to concentrate - if she doesn't seem like she is concentrating, or appears distracted then again she might be faking it.

As there are signs she is faking it, there are also signs she is really cuming:

* If she is really wet before intercourse then she is turned on which is a good sign.

* When you get into the rhythm during sex and she is working with you by encouraging certain movements or rhythms, and then she orgasms you know it is more likely to be real.

* If you know your partner, her facial expressions and moans will give it away if it is real or not.

* She may also make sudden convulsions or have involuntary muscle spasms and this is an indication it is real thing.

Get to know your woman. If she doesn't genuinely climax during sex it is not because she doesn´t want to, it is because maybe she can´t. While some women can genuinely orgasm during sex, there are some women who genuinely can't. These women generally need clitoral stimulation to climax.

Sex toys can help if she doesn't orgasm during sex. If this is the case, there are product specifically designed for couple sex to stimulate her clitoris during sex so she too can orgasm. Check out the Rockin Rabbit and Diving Dolphin in particular.

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Written by Suzie Harris, an expert on all things that happen in the bedroom, particularly love, sex toys and romance. She is the chief contributor to The Lazy Stud www.thelazystud.com.au

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