Bring Romance Back to Your Marriage


by Mary Green - Date: 2007-01-31 - Word Count: 350 Share This!

I have heard many times that keeping the romance alive keeps the marriage alive. On some level I do believe that this is true, although romance is not actually a need it definitely seems to help. Men sometimes are lost as to what they can do to be romantic, my guess is they don't seem to think about it, like we do. As a disclaimer right now I would like to say I do know that there are several men out there that are romantic, mostly though they are just in the soap operas I sometimes get to watch. Back to the point, I have decided to research what a woman can do to get her husband/ significant other to be more romantic. So here is a little list of tips I have.

1. Leave clues, men can be completely clueless when it comes to women, so leave little clues here and there. Such as in a book he reads, on the remote, through someone else, an e-mail. We all know how clueless our men are by the time marriage rolls around, so you should know how subtle you can be.

2. Be romantic yourself, make it a regular thing to be romantic yourself, and hopefully once he enjoys it, he will initiate it himself.

3. Be blunt, buy him a book and ask him to read it, better yet get one for the both of you and read it together. As you go through it make notes in the margin of things you would both like. The book 1001 ways to be Romantic would be a great start for this tip because there would be so much to pick from.

4. Make a regular date to just be together, away from the kids, and other family, go through other couple books that ask questions of each of you, you might learn something new about yourself or your spouse.

5. Finally read yourself, books about communication with men, romance, and books or articles about the minds of men. They are quite different than women, and you can find explanations to many of their odd behaviors.


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