In life we will be in a number of relationships because we start so young, in our teens in some instances and a breakup is just one of those life events that will happen, it is in the natural order of life. When a breakup does occur we are left in a heap of blubbering nonsense with every nerve open and raw susceptible to a number of emotions never experienced before and no matter how often this is experienced the effect is always the same. When you are in a relationship nourish it and protect is for it is so delicate that you really want to do all you can to keep it flourishing and growing while avoiding a breakup at all cost. As with the natural order of life a break up will occur so I will outline some tips for some ways to get your ex interested again.

I had said previously that when a break up happens you are left in a heap of hapless humanity which is natural but rough as it may sound you need to get over it quickly for no one wants the pitiful and lets face the facts the state you are in after a break up is pitiful. Get over it and get on with it the recovery put up a façade as if nothing had happened with the reasoning being that if there is not outward appearance of grief and if you want your ex back, the look of well being will stir the interest of your ex that much sooner or on the other hand if it seems that there is no effect on you it will increase the effect on your ex, a double edge sword effect.

What we would like to do is create an environment that speaks as if you really don't give two shots of squid poop as to whether your ex exists or not. Get the upper hand on the whole ordeal and be the one in control and this is done in the ways I am outlining for you. You need to appraise how you communicate with your ex and basically just shut it down remembering the appearance we are trying to achieve is that you really don't care and this has no affect on you and in the event you really don't care then this just helps facilitate your getting on and being over it; again the double bladed sword, it works both ways and are to your benefit all around.

When exercising your control of the situation be careful so that you communicate exactly what you mean as if you want your ex out of your life and don't care then tell your ex to get their belongings before you put them to the curb for trash collection on the other hand if you want your ex back in your life tell them that they should take there time and that if they need to get something you are there for them as they need, give them the sense your care but don't get it on the level that you are a push over for you then loose the upper hand and control so be flexible and caring but not stupid.

Get back to your old self to the life you enjoyed and served you well. Be with friends and do things kicking it up and enjoying life once again.