Feeling Suicidal
The truth is, right now, it seems to be the most plausible solution but the most plausible solution got you into this mess in the first place.
Now before you do it, let us consider the two benefits of actually doing it.
1st Benefit : if you make it quick, that is get a gun and blow your brains out; making sure the bullet goes through the temple of your brain and out the other side, then It will be quick, swift and you will be dead in no time.
2nd Benefit 2: You no longer have to deal with the burdens of this world, the pain, hurt, betrayal, abuse, debts, insecurities, the evil and disappointments of this world. You are out of it for good.
Now let us consider the unknown. I don't know about you, but how are you so sure that by ending your own life right now, it will make everything go away. Once you are dead, there is no coming back. We are both sure of this. You can't undo it.
1st Scenario: What if your body dies but your spirit never actually dies. This will mean that you left your body but the problem is still with you. Now that you are dead, you'll never be able to do anything about it. Isn't that worse than being alive.
2nd Scenario: What if 'Hell' actually exist and you find yourself there. As we all know, suicide is a sin and it's penalty is eternity in hell. That's going from a hot frying pan and into the fire itself.
Considering all these, let us look at the benefits of not taking the easy way out.
1st Benefit: You make a decision to solve the problem and not allow what has happened outside of you to destroy what is inside of you.
2nd Benefit: You immediately grow up, assume responsibility, get your dignity and self respect back.
3rd Benefit: You realise that your ability to triumph today will save the lives of many and give generations hope - Your children, their children, and the many generations after them. Live some more, don't do it.
Facts Of Life:
1. Dying today will not save you.
2. We don't know where we go after this life.
3. Hell may actually exist or it may not.
4. Death will come, why rush it!
5. Emotional pain is not permanent.
6. There is still hope for the living.
7. And none for the dead.
8.Someone needs you to live today.
9. Your enemies will be happy.
10.You will actually lose if you give in.
11. You are no loser until you die as one.
12. Live today and be victorious.
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