Dating Tips For Men - What To Do When She Seems To Be Pulling Away From You


by Christopher Tyler - Date: 2010-09-20 - Word Count: 428 Share This!

Lots of guys have had this experience. They are talking, flirting and getting to know a woman. And things seem to be going good until, in a blink of an eye, it starts to seem like she is pulling away from you. When this happens, it's easy to get caught up thinking that you have to do something immediately to bring her attention back where it belongs, which is on YOU. How are you going to do this is the big question, though.

Most men will make it pretty obvious that they are starting to get desperate to bring her attention back on them. And because of that air of desperation, chances are she will pull away for good, and that will be the end of the interaction for you. Want to know what you should be doing in a situation like that?

Here are some dating tips for men on what to do when she starts to pull away:

1. Don't sweat it so much.

The less it seems to bother you or even be a big deal at all, the better. You don't want to have things going good and then lose that because you suddenly become desperate to keep her attention on you. All that will do is to work against you, and then you are dealing with a tough hand to play. Just think of it like this: if you truly were successful with women, it would not matter so much, because you would have other options. So, act like this is the case.

2. Pull away from her first.

This is something that most guys are not willing to do, it's counter intuitive, and it will kind of leave her in a state of shock, in a good way. See, most guys do let it become apparent that they notice she is pulling away, and so, they push harder and try to keep her there. If YOU are the one that pulls away, then you have kind of turned the tables on her, and like I said, most women are not used to this and it will make a good impression on her.

3. Engage her in an interesting and captivating story.

One of the easiest ways to keep a woman's attention locked on you is to get her caught up in a captivating story that you are telling her. As long as you are not a boring story teller, this usually works, because most people are going to want to hear the end of the story, they are not going to walk away in the middle of you telling it.

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