Top 5 Rules When Flirting With Women


by Andres Munoz - Date: 2010-09-14 - Word Count: 522 Share This!

Dating is a game, and like all games, there are rules that you must abide by. However, unlike most games, there are unspoken rules that men and women follow. Read on to find out how you can use these rules to your advantage when flirting with women…

Here are the 5 rules in dating you should know about when flirting with women.

1. Don't show compliance

A woman's notion of power over men is strange, but soon enough you will notice a pattern. If a girl feels you like her too much, she will get bored with you and move on. If she thinks you like her a bit but not enough to make a fool of yourself for her, she will do her best to prove herself to you so that you will find her attractive. In her mind, she is flirting with you so that she can grab your attention, which is exactly what you want her to think. The more she tries to impress you, the more her attraction for you develops.

2. Don't hesitate when you touch her

Women notice how some men become awkward when they inadvertently touch. Just a simple hand shake with a beauty makes some men cringe, which is a sign of discomfort and shyness, but women will interpret this in another way. They will think that you're a total newbie when dealing with women and this is a turn off. No sane woman wants to go with a guy who doesn't know what he's doing in bed.

3. Get social proof.

This is a major rule you have to follow when flirting with women. Make sure you stay social and you say hello to the people around you before you approach a girl. Women get attracted to guys that other women are attracted to. This is how endorsements work. When a girl sees you talking to another hot girl by the bar, she will instantly assume that you're fun to be with and that you're socially accepted by attractive women.

4. Let her know you're in charge.

When a conversation hits the skids and she suddenly bursts out crying about an ex-boyfriend, be sympathetic but change the subject right away. You're not her gal pal and you don't need to hear about her sad relationship stories all night. If this happens, bounce her to another location (preferably a place that serves strong coffee) or take her home. Making a decision to do this when a woman loses control will make her feel you are someone she can depend on to keep her in her place, and to remind her not to embarrass herself (and you) in public.

5. Observe her body language

Look out for clues that she likes you, and be particularly wary of signs that could lead to a blow off. Is she arching one eyebrow and rolling her eyes? If so, she might be feeling antagonistic, or you're being too obnoxious. Remember, you only have a few minutes to notice hints of getting ditched before she delivers a stinging rejection. On the other hand, if she's showing positive signs and you're not noticing any of these, she might think you're clueless.


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