How To Receive The Same Hypnotic Encouragement As Top Performing Sports Stars
You know what? I believe that we all need some of that kind of encouragement from time to time. This is especially true when we want to make positive and powerful changes in our lives for our own betterment.
Take a moment out here to imagine this scenario. First of all, think of someone that you love; a child or your spouse or best friend or any other dearly beloved person in your life. Imagine that they were really trying to achieve something; I mean that they really wanted a particular thing to happen or wanted to create something or achieve a goal.
Now imagine that a total stranger came and belittled their efforts. The stranger told them that they could not do it and they might as well give up! Imagine the stranger said that they should not have tried in the first place and their efforts will amount to nothing!
How would that make you feel? I guess you would feel annoyed at the stranger's sentiments, wouldn't you? You are likely to defend your loved one, aren't you?
So in contrast, what would you say to that loved one to encourage them and support them? Really take a moment out to think about that. How would you encourage them to successfully achieve and apply themselves?
You see, so often the kind of thing that the stranger was saying is the kind of thing that people say to themselves. You would not tolerate that sort of thing being said to a loved one, yet you may well tolerate it in the way you communicate to yourself. Not just with your internal dialogue, it could be with your belief about yourself and your actions in life.
As of this very day, begin to think about what you would say to someone else in certain situations in life if you wanted to encourage them. How would you encourage a loved one? What language and tone of voice would you use? Consider writing it all down and repeating it to yourself inside your mind to become your new, progressive internal dialogue. How do you encourage others? Use this way of encouraging yourself.
Ensure that you are convincing and sincere, make sure that you really mean what it is that you are saying. When you then communicate with yourself in that way, notice how that makes you feel. Notice what it is like to have that kind of progressive, encouraging internal communication instead. It can be like a breath of fresh air for your brain because you are now nurturing it.
As a result of encouraging yourself so much more, each time you create some internal communication of any kind with yourself, as you are more and more supportive, this is going to naturally increase your self-esteem and your self-confidence too! In turn, that builds a stronger foundation for your success and grows your ability to achieve more.
Follow these simple encouragement steps to start really helping yourself to achieve more this week:
Step One: Take some time to create a good receptive meditative state for yourself. Have a good think about a success that you have experienced or something that went really well or maybe a significant achievement in your life or an every day achievement (is there really such a thing?). As you think about it, think about what it was that has been so successful about it and also notice that thinking about it makes you feel better.
Notice what you thought, what internal dialogue you had, where in your body the feelings were, what you saw and heard and how you behaved. With a full, sensory rich idea of your successes you can learn from them and replicate them.
Step Two: Run through that entire process again with another occasion. Repeat it a couple of times for both times. These are things that are indicative to you that you are on the right path in certain areas of your life.
Step Three: Give yourself some praise. Go on, go ahead and praise yourself. Pat yourself on the back! This is nourishing, it is nurturing your relationship with yourself and rewarding and leads to you building your sense of self. Have some laughs as you do it, I know I find it hard to keep a straight face when I am doing this.
Now, start piling on the encouragement.Give yourself some really good encouragement. Encouraging yourself gives you more and more resources for the challenges and difficulties that may lie ahead. Think about how you would encourage someone else and then deliver that encouragement to you.
Step Four: Next up is comfort. Now I am not talking about the kind of comfort that I get when I sit in my lovely reclining chair, although it is very nice. Comfort yourself about something that may have not gone as you wanted. Heal those old wounds that used to be there. Take some time out to nurture yourself and heighten your own personal awareness of self.
Accepting and heightening your awareness of these things rather than resisting and fighting past things will allow you to start to take yourself to a new place in the future. This is a different flavour of encouragement.
Step Five: Remind yourself of your past successes again; remember those things that went well. You are now creating a better internal environment for yourself; you are painting the internal workings of your mind with success and good things. In the past you may have kept on sowing seeds with negative thoughts and reminders, now you choose to do something different.
Step Six: Create a time in the future when you have a darling loved one encouraging you. Imagine them telling you how amazing you are and how proud they are of you - maybe someone that motivates you or someone you admire. You can take it up a level and imagine a small crowd of people that you know and love all encouraging you and loving you and telling you all those wonderful things that make them sure that you can achieve what you want to achieve.
Then, you can even take it higher than that. Imagine the sights, sounds and feelings of running past thousands of people, or standing on a stage in front of thousands of people, or whatever you want to imagine, and those people are cheering you on, applauding you and showing you how much they believe in you. Soak this stuff up and enjoy the encouragement of the masses!
Step Seven: Finally, I want you to once again just remind yourself of a happy moment or a time when you felt really good about yourself. There are lots of them. If you are trying your hardest to convince yourself that you cannot recall any good feelings, then email me, I will tell you one of my favourite and irresistible jokes and you'll then have a moment of happiness to cherish. This process helps to change your state. Get used to doing this. Whenever you imagine something really vividly, something that made you feel really good, you cannot help but make changes in your neurology and your physiology.
This does not end with yourself of course. Think of ways that you can now actively encourage others too. Giving encouragement to others also confirms to you that you have more and more of the things that you need to succeed and achieve more of the things you want in your life. So make a conscious decision to be more generous with the encouragement you offer to those around you. Write down some things that you can do this very day to encourage those around you and then take action to do them.
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