Give The Gift Of Yourself To Your Man This Holiday Season!
Have a CD such as a romantic, slow one of Barry Manilow's on the player in the bathroom by the time he is finished with dinner. You could undress him gently as you suggest a little massage therapy for him. There area many books available on the subject of massage, such as at Amazon.com or visit your local Barnes & Nobles. A little massage oil, such as KY Touch Massage Oil makes the massage much more sensual so that you don't pull on his skin. Kiss him gently on his face, neck, lips and chest. Run your fingers through his hair. You can take as much time as the two of you need to here. It could even lead to a much-needed catnap. It has been my experience that the nap does not last long before my husband looks for more pampering and loving.
Light some beautiful candles, all white can be very romantic, but all Christmas scented with red and green candles would go along with a holiday theme. Draw a nice bubble bath or herbal aroma therapy bath with lavender or another flower or herb. Use a bath pillow, and you can add a capful of bath oil to pamper and soften his skin. Be sure and check the temperature for safety. Some men prefer very hot water while others prefer just warm water. Take into consideration the temperature in your home. Keep a soothing body wash and a loofah available to bath your man after he soaks for about ten to fifteen minutes and relaxes to the music. Bathing gently with the lathered loofah, tell him in a loving manner how you love to take care of him and sing along with the CD if he enjoys your singing. This may be a time to enjoy the music alone if he has had a particular busy and noisy day at work or while traveling.
A nice man's towel wrap is a great gift that my man really enjoyed all this last year after receiving it from me for a Christmas gift. An added bonus is that it is so easy to unsnap in two seconds and can be left on for preliminary foreplay. Take safety precaution to put out the candles before retiring to the bedroom. You can further the sensual and relaxing experience of this night by massaging a little French Vanilla hand and body lotion on his skin as French Vanilla is also considered a fragrance that is aphrodisiac in nature. Usually natural products feel more sensually and are healthier.
Your man should be putty in your hands by the time you entice his all of his senses. Your willingness to please him should not go unrewarded. Follow these steps, and your lover should melt into your arms and want to give you whatever you want for Christmas! Enjoy the fruits of your labor!
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Annetherese Cullen, a Senior published short story author and poet, is attending the City University of New York. Happily married with children and grandchildren. This story is dedicated to my husband, Timothy.
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