Long Term Relationships Vs. Sexual Relationships
Here's a common problem: A man tries to impress a woman by doing things that show that he's a good LONG-TERM RELATIONSHIP kind of guy, but the woman responds by being stand-offish. I have read some interesting research that shows that women have a few main categories in their minds in which they slot men.
These are:
1) Not interested at all.
2) Interested as a friend.
3) Interested in a long-term relationship.
4) Interested in a sexual relationship.
Here's the interesting part: If a woman sees a man as a good potential ‘long-term' mate, she'll usually hold back the sex.
On the other hand, if she gets sexually involved with a man, she'll usually still be open to a long-term relationship.
Most men who want sex make the mistake of doing things like taking women to dinner, buying them gifts, and being romantic. This behavior triggers the "Hey, this guy is good long-term material" category in the woman's mind, and they hold back sex.
But if a man does things to turn a woman on earlier in the game and she gets sexually involved, he can choose where he wants the relationship to go. Are you with me on this one?
Go ask some men and women about this idea. They'll report back to you what I'm telling you. Women know that if a man is doing all the big romantic things like buying her gifts and taking her out, he is displaying ‘courtship' types of behavior. I mentioned earlier that women take hints very well and read into things much more than men. Unfortunately, men have no idea that their good deeds are being interpreted as long-term courtship demonstrations. Ahhhh!
So what's the solution?
The solution is to stop doing the ‘I'm courting you' things early on, and start by being attractive, interesting, and sexy. This puts the balance of power in your hands and puts you more in control.
I'm going to say it again: A woman will get into a long-term relationship with a man who she's sleeping with, but she won't be as likely to sleep with a man who's courting her. Get it?
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