What is the answer to overcoming great obstacles in your social dating life?

First you have to see the social matrix. Know what it is and you can bring it into focus and see it in the world and behaviorism around you. Then, differentiate yourself from it.

No more stimulus-response type of relationship with social influence. Only interdependence, and you alone have the power to choose your relationship you have with all power. By default 'socially' you are powerless but we can change that.

I do this through Relational Mapping. It's what Neo did in 'The Matrix' to get his power.

In order to become as powerful as he did, he had to have cognition of the one thing he didn't understand his relationship to.

Once he could 'see', he could then stop the bullets of influence from ever hurting him again. He had the power to choose the type of relationship he had with other forces of power.

Once he could understand the relational elements involved he was no longer ignorant. He was instantly more powerful than the agents against him.

He had a literal force field around him that would deflect any bullet from hurting him because he wasn't going to allow that coercion to damage him or lower his character.

When you differentiate yourself from the social matrix (and it's root behavioral characteristic influence within women), you will be more powerful and independent than you have ever been in your life.

That is the key to confidence and lacking insecurity.

The leverage which was unwittingly used against you, you will have power over instead. You will be relationally equal to that which has programmed you before (which was a LOT of power and influence).

This is leveraged character growth and once you are equal in independence to powerful or beautiful people around you (respect around the table), then if you have value to offer, you can make connections with other
powerful people (even those at the top of social subcultures).

Fortunately, your independent relational power alone is value in the eyes of beautiful women. Rare is the man who is not thrown off by their beauty or who instantly places them on the pedestal where they actually don't want to be.

You see, you essentially HAVE to be that man for a woman to be attracted to you. While other experts will talk about techniques because they can't pinpoint it, it really is about relational dynamics.

As a man you HAVE TO BE the stimulus for a woman to respond to. There are different forms of stimuli but the woman is always the response. That is why she acts different around different men.

If you're nervous and uncomfortable around her, SHE will be uncomfortable about being around you because you're the stimulus.

It's time to be the proper stimulus, the one who gets action. Be all women's relational equal and one who REMAINS independent in relation to her (throughout all tests and communication), and you'll always be
inviting their response, attraction and interest everywhere you go.

Confidence building techniques can't compare to the leverage of power you're going up against with these women. They look the same as a magazine cover and millions of men would 'respond', drool and give her the power.

Alpha R.D. is the real fix. Once you have power and represent that in relation to power around you, you will attract that which you desire.

Finally there is a way to get there by harnessing and applying the elements involved just as producers, architects and designers do. Only in this case, we're dealing with cognition of the root behavioral elements involved.

-Rion Williams