Beat Life's Imagined Barriers With A Life Coach


by Cynndie Hoff - Date: 2007-06-20 - Word Count: 658 Share This!

Life is a roller coaster ride sometimes - you must learn to accept both failures and accomplishments with equal grace. However, most people fail to succeed in their lives due to invisible barriers.

Mental blocks, such as fear, tend to get in the way of your success. It takes courage and determination to overcome these fears and move on in your life. You need an altogether different mindset to look at such blocks and hurdles as challenging opportunities. If you lack the confidence to take these challenges in stride, or if life's problems seem to get the better of you, then you can probably benefit by consulting a life coach.

Often the biggest block to creating your perfect life is - YOU. Your self-created fears and your lack of confidence in your own abilities stop you from aiming high and succeeding in life.

Typically, there are five types of blocks you need to remove from your path to success. They are:

Material Clutter

Material clutter is a hazard to your success; get rid of it! Get organized and the motivation will follow. It is too hard to focus on any sort of task when you are surrounded with clutter at home or in the office.

Emotional Clutter

Just as you would clean your closet and throw out unwanted things, you must also get rid of the emotional clutter. Bad memories, grudges, regret, and sadness are like roadblocks on your success path. Forgive, forget, and move on. Learn to forgive yourself for past mistakes. Most of all, realize that there is nothing about the past that you can change - you simply have to make sure that you have learned from it.

Only when your mind is truly free can you experience true success and joy.

Negative Emotions

Learn to identify negative emotions, as they can impede success in your life. Negative emotions work like slow poison destroying you bit by bit everyday. This is probably the hardest point to master of all. Negative thinking is built up over a lifetime. It takes discipline to reject repetitive negative thoughts as soon as they try to enter your mind.

Negative Beliefs

You may have negative beliefs about yourself and the world around you. A life coach will help you unveil and face these negative beliefs so that you can face the world with an open mind. These beliefs do nothing but limit your potential for success by causing you to lose faith in yourself and your abilities.

Resistance

A life coach will help you recognize if there is resistance of any kind deep within you that prevents you from getting what you want. You may harbor resistance that you don't even know is there - a resistance to the belief that you deserve to be successful!

A skilled life coach understands how difficult it is to eradicate these blocks at one time and can help you understand that different facets of your life affect one another. It is important to take care of each one of them to ensure that your life is successful. For instance, if you are not happy in your personal life, your professional life will also suffer. Your life coach will teach you some soul-searching techniques that can help you recognize and remove these blocks. Your life coach will set easy goals for you to bring about small but significant changes in the way you think and act. Having a positive attitude is crucial to overcoming these mental blocks. By doing this, you can streamline your actions to reach your goals sooner than you had imagined.

Getting a life coach is not a sign of weakness; on the contrary, it is a sign of strength. It is an admission that you deserve to be successful, that you are taking control of your life and that you are taking the necessary steps to make it happen. Your relationship with your life coach can be an empowering one that has the potential to create synergy and produce phenomenal results.

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Cynndie Hoff is director of communications for Telos Breakthrough Principles. Telos is founded by Life Coach Danny Morel who captivates audiences of thousands and inspires countless individuals to aspire to greatness and achieve their dreams through his personal life coaching and personal development training progams.

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