Is the Relationship Worth Saving?
If you have taken the topics of this book to heart then the next step or phase you will likely move into is deciding if the relationship is worth saving. What do you get out of the relationship that is necessary in your life to make it worth fighting for? Some people know exactly what they want and need from their partners while others hope that they will discover these things once they find the right person.
We discussed earlier in this book some signs to look for when your partner's feelings for you may be changing. It is important to explore why your partner's feelings are changing and why their actions are different. This may dictate whether or not you have something to fight for. The reasons may reveal something entirely different than a person who just doesn't care for you anymore or doesn't really like you in "that way."
In further explanation - you will definitely have an uphill battle if you are trying to save a relationship with someone that really doesn't want to be with you. If the other person's feelings just aren't there, or they don't feel the same about you that you do about them, then you may want to cut your losses sooner than later and move on. If there are other reasons for your partners change in behavior then you may have something worth saving and fighting for. If your partner is dealing with something that has changed, perhaps at work or personally that is affecting him on a deeper level he may not know how to handle it appropriately. In this situation they may act out on you because of it.
In your discussion with your partner, if you find that the problems really are external (i.e. meaning they don't involve personal feelings for you) then you can help that person deal with whatever it is they are dealing with and move on from their. If they have these external stresses in their life they may feel better just getting them out in the open. Once they are exposed then the two of you can work on resolving them together and those negative behaviors that were present before will likely disappear.
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Peter Harris is a health care professional and author and writes frequently about relationships.
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