Five Ways to Please Her this Christmas


by Shayla Moore - Date: 2006-12-27 - Word Count: 1103 Share This!

The holidays are a time when the level of stress for everyone seems to be raised significantly. Not only is there so much to do, but there is also so many things that the woman you care the most for has to worry about. These things may include what to buy, how to afford everything, or decisions about when and where to celebrate.

The stress is not just on women. Men face a lot of stress too, and this is just emphasized by the time you may lose together as you run around and try to accomplish everything you want to this Christmas. This is why you need to find moments (however fleeting they may be) when you can actually spend time together. Without finding even the smallest amount of time to spend with her, you may head down a road where misunderstanding and agitation can occur. That is definitely something you want to avoid.

This is why you need to take the opportunity to find the little ways to please her and keep her happy over the holidays. Not only will her happiness help to relieve the stress she is feeling in other areas, but it will also strengthen your relationship and bring you closer together during the most wonderful time of the year.

Five Ways to Make Her Smile

There are obviously more than five ways to please her and make her happy. You know her, her likes, and what makes her happy better than anyone. Feel free to make your own top five lists of things to do to make her smile and follow through with them. Otherwise, you can use any or all of these ideas. No matter what kind of girl she is, she will be thankful you took the time to do something special just for her!

5 Romance Her Nothing says I love you this season quite like romance does. You can spend an incredibly romantic evening in the hot tub, shower, bedroom, living room by the fire, or anywhere you feel comfortable. Whatever her tastes are should apply to this. If she finds flowers and serenading her with dancing and a meal outside the house, by all means, romance her this way. If she is a down-home girl who likes homemade cooking and spending time indoors by the fire as you give her a full body massage, then try romancing her this way.

Some ideas for a romantic evening may include:

A Bubble Bath for two
A night in the hot tub
A Champagne or Wine
A night by the fire
A full body massage
A night exploring the Kama Sutra
A candlelit dinner

There are many different things you can do, which will make your romantic evening more special then either of you could imagine. It is also an excellent break, when you take one night off from the hustle and bustle of the season, and just spend it together exploring and reconnecting with one another.

4 Surprise Her Throughout the season, you can surprise her by doing little things for her. Everything you can do to show you care about her will be counted in your favor. For starters, consider doing some of the chores around the house. If she is out shopping and planning for a full family Christmas all day, she is going to be tired when she comes home. The dishes in the sink will not care if she is tired. They will still need to be done, so why not make yourself useful this way. When she comes home and realizes what you have done, she will be grateful.

You can also surprise her with little presents here and there. A dildo on the pillow, a vibrator in the sock drawer, and a new vibrating bath sponge in the bathroom are little ways you can let her know you want her to relax. She can de-stress on her own, or maybe if she is feeling adventurous, she will call you in to help her have that fun. Then she can truly relax for the rest of the day and get everything she wanted to accomplish done in the process.

3 Lower her Stress Level One of the most effective ways to lower your stress level and relax your body is through orgasm. Over the holidays, making her orgasm will be a major part of making her relax and allowing her to de-stress. Try not to focus on your orgasm so much as you make sure she enjoys herself and she has the chance to feel the pleasure, too.

You could stop her in between activities and have a quickie. Just because it is quick does not mean it has to be unsatisfying. In fact, many women find quickies to be both unexpectedly erotic, and extremely pleasing when executed correctly. You should make sure to pay plenty of attention to her clitoris, as this can provide stress relieving, mind-blowing orgasms.

A good way to really drive her wild is by having finger ticklers on while you make love. As you stroke between her thighs and tease all the moist treasures beneath your fingertips, you can use the ticklers to buzz vibrations against her providing a pleasing sensation she will not soon forget.

2 Be the Helpful Husband/Boyfriend You can be the helpful husband or boyfriend in the same way as we have mentioned above, or you can take it a step further. Do not just be the helpful boyfriend/husband in the bedroom but be helpful to her out of it as well.

Here are some great ways to be helpful:

Help her with the Christmas shopping
Handle all the house decorating need
If you can cook, help out with the meals
Handle daily chores around the house
Take care of the kids
Wash her during bath time
Spend time Snuggling
Breakfast in Bed (served naked)
Take showers together

The more helpful you are this Christmas, the more she will want to reward you for your hard work and dedication to her.

1 - Be Attentive to All Her Needs Express your erotic nature by attending to any and all of her needs. This means you need to pamper her in every way you can. If she does not expect the attention, she will be pleasantly surprised by just what you have to offer her this Christmas.

Some ideas for being attentive to her needs include:

A night of passion in the most wild of positions (sexual liberator furniture can help)
Oral pleasure in any form
Conversational Expressions as you share your thoughts, feelings, and desires only to act them out later
Let her take control and decide what you do for the evening

Ultimately, you know your woman, so plan something special you know she will love. When you do, her Christmas (and yours) will be that much merrier.


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Shayla Moore is a writer for http://www.oasislingerie.com She has many intresting topics and ideas for all to read about. Check out more of her articles.

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