You know that guy - not that great looking, does not drive the best car, does not live in the biggest house but always seems to have a model on his arm. How does he do it? Here are four tips to help you become an alpha male and be the man you were meant to be.

The reason that women seem to flock to him is that he is an alpha male. Alpha males are comfortable in their own skin which allows them to exude confidence from the inside out. They did not depend on what they have to build their confidence. They are so convinced of their self worth, that they become irresistible to women. Every other guy does not seem to understand how he does it.

The good thing about alpha males is that they clearly show you that it does not matter how you look, how much is in your bank account, who you know, etc, to have great success with women. A lot of self confidence and the correct body language will do wonders for your dating life.

1. Stop Being A Beta Male

Where there are alphas, there are betas who are typically subordinates to the alpha. Going from beta to alpha means getting over your low self esteem and lack of confidence. Beta males are a dead giveaway because they;

- Fidget.

- Slouch.

- Cross their arms which makes them appear unapproachable.

- Appear and may act nervous.

- Shrink their bodies and do not own their space.

The first step to correcting the above behaviors is becoming aware of how you act when you enter a room. Make a mental note to "observe yourself" and make the necessary changes.

2. Build Confidence

It is important that you recognize your worth which has nothing to do with your how you look, where you live, what you drive, etc.

To help you build your confidence, make a list of your strengths and weaknesses and determine the root cause of why you feel inferior. Determine what inhibits you and start to talk to yourself whenever you revert back to the thought patterns and behaviors that cause you to have low self esteem. Make sure that you make a point to acknowledge your accomplishments and talents, and remind yourself daily of how great you are. To change a bad habit, consistent effort is key.

3. Relax and Have Fun

While in conversation with a woman, beta males overly stress over what the woman is thinking, doing, and saying, in addition to acting nervous and this is a huge turn off to any woman.

Alpha males are simply relaxed and comfortable while in conversation with a woman and are not worried about the outcome of the interaction. They simply enjoy the interaction. Due to this, they come off as calm and collected which in turn relaxes the woman and is a huge turn on for women.

Our inner feelings shall always be reflected on the outside so become comfortable and relaxed and do not place a lot of importance on what the woman is thinking while interacting with you, which will improve your chances with a woman.

4. Alpha Male Body Language

Once you work on your inside, then you can work on your outside and the body languages you exhibit in social situations.

The body language of alpha males includes;

- Making direct comfortable eye contact.

- Not fidgeting, looking around the room or slouching.

- Owning the space by leaning back and looking comfortable.

- Appearing relaxed.

Alpha males command respect because they do not simply react to what other people do. Reacting gives away your power to other people. Attracting the women you want and having the life you want simply means becoming an alpha male. Adopt the above behaviors and thought patterns of the alpha male and see your life change.