Relationship Advice For Today's People!

by Fabricio Cruz - Date: 2006-12-22 - Word Count: 627 Share This!

Relationship Advice

If you are single, dating, or trying to get to "I DO" and spend too much time hurting and not enough time loving this may be the most important love relationship advice you could ever receive. When we think of the kind of ongoing love relationship we would desire to live in, one of the things we think of is a sense of warmth. We never think that our relationship will experience the tragedy of an affair.

Ironically dating that leads to a true love relationship is terrifying to the hidden part of us that's responsible for our safety and survival. So if I am in a relationship with a person whose love language is seeing it, then I need to show her I love her through the things I do. Each person's love language is simply the way in which love is best communicated to him or her.

Knowing that Bob's love language is through touch (feeling), I asked Mary to say the same words to him, only this time simply to put her hand on his arm while she said it. So if I like to receive love by hearing it, then if I follow the Golden Rule, I will give love with words. Perhaps by then we'll have the technology that will allow guys to "just know because you love me".

This is because in long term love relationships, you are given the heart of another person to hold in your hands. At the same time, there are times in love relationships when it can get quite chilly. If you don't deal with the essential issues that damaged the relationship, it's quite likely those same issues will pop up in the next relationship.

This is when you need to tell history to shut up, so you can create some positive history in the relationship. Paying attention to this kind of relationship history can help us choose better partners and not repeat the same mistakes. This four-step process can help you to design consciously the kind of relationship you both want.

Along those lines, here are 3 things you can do on a regular basis to keep the connection alive in your relationship. c) If the conversation escalates into angry words, you can de-escalate by talking about how much the relationship, your mutual project or whatever you have in common is suffering. My belief is if you take action on and use just one of these suggestions in the coming year, you just might like the "new" relationship you can create.

If you are going to make a long term relationship work, you have to go into with the notion that you are playing for keeps. This won't guarantee that your relationship will make it, but at least you will know that you gave it every chance to work. If you notice that these words apply to you and your relationship, you can turn it around.

If you cannot talk this out on your own, it's time to find a good relationship coach or counselor. If you spend all your time reading women's magazines, watching TV, or gabbing with the girls, you're on a fast track to becoming one boring, boring person. Here's the point: The IMPLICATION of hitting a wall is that YOU COULD do the same thing to the other person's face.

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