Better Sex - a Women's Guide to Getting Her Man to Perform


by Sacha Tarkovsky - Date: 2007-06-20 - Word Count: 457 Share This!

Is you man to tired for sex and has a flagging libido? Then its time for both you and your partner to enjoy better sex, by helping your man to perform with the following tips. Simply follow them and they will lead you both to enjoy better sex.

Men are under pressure to perform at work and in many instances stressed and anxious when they come home and the last thing on their mind is sex!

Even in today's equal society, they feel under pressure to perform in the bedroom and feel they have to take the lead.

It is the anxiety and stress of having to perform, that sometimes leads to them flopping in the bedroom, so its time to give them some help.

1. Relax your partner

After a hard day at work relax your partner with a massage with sensuous oils.

It's important he clears his mind, only concentrates on you and enjoying sex and there is simply no better way of doing this than starting with a massage.

The massage will relax him and the oils will stimulate his senses.

2. Foreplay

While it is a well known fact that women need plenty of foreplay to get aroused men do to, especially when they get older and need to be coaxed into action.

Engage in plenty of foreplay and take the LEAD.

Start with plenty of kissing and licking and use oral sex - most men love this anyway and it's a great way to prepare for intercourse.

Make sure you compliment him.

Men will feel much better if they know you are enjoying it, so feed him compliments all the time, to take the pressure off him.

3. Girls on top

Is the position you are in control and you are relieving the pressure on your partner as you have control of not just his pleasure but yours to. This is a great position where a man just simply needs to let you take control.

4. If he has problems getting an erection

Show him you are enjoying yourself anyway, and get put your pelvic region right into his without penetration and let him see you orgasm.

This can be a great turn on for men anyway, as contrary to believe men are not just interested in their own pleasure their interested in yours to.

These are four tips that can relieve the pressure to perform from your partner and make sure that he is relaxed and not anxious, which on many occasions will mean he is unable to perform.

You will also massage his ego and by showing that you are in control and enjoying yourself he will respond.

Try the above tips and both you and your partner will enjoy better sex.


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