Before you decide that to get your girlfriend back is too much of a hassle or that you will be setting yourself up for disappointment, you need to take a look at what really works to bring back your girlfriend. I can assure you that most situations are NOT as hopeless as they might seem, and when you have the right get your girlfriend back guide, you can easily find a way to bring her back to you.

Many relationships breakup when they should be making up instead. I know, it's sounds a little cheesy, but would you rather go through the next few months feeling depressed about breaking up with your girlfriend, or would you like to have the experience of getting her back and making it last?

Here is a step by step guide that you can use to get your girlfriend back:

1. You need to get your head and your heart clear of any negative emotions that you are experiencing right now.

When you are feeling these kinds of emotions, nothing feels right. And you don't have the confidence that you need to actually put yourself out there on the line and do the things that are going to make her want you back in your life. These are the times when men will cry themselves to sleep over their ex girlfriend and in no way do they make the situation any better. Before you do anything else, you need to get rid of these feelings.

2. You need to know that getting back your girlfriend does NOT mean that you need to be around her all of the time.

You are going to have to create some distance and this is going to be easier now, because of the fact that she wants to be alone. That is a good thing, as your ex girlfriend needs to be able to have some time to think and to miss you. If you do not let her go through these emotions, then getting her back is going to be tougher than you can imagine.

3. Once you have disappeared from her life for awhile, you need to make an emergence.

This time, you need to make her see you as being the kind of guy that she just cannot say no to. To make her feel this way, you have to become very attractive and appealing in her mind. Be confident, flirt with her, and don't go on and on about how much you miss her. Treat her as if you just met her and there is no ties that bind you.

4. Get her out on a casual date.

It's got to be casual, as the more pressure you put on it, the more likely she is going to avoid it. It's better to look at it as just hanging out and then letting the chips fall where they may. See, when you try and get her out on a casual date, the last thing that you want to make your ex girlfriend feel is like it is just another plot to try and win her back.