Yeah, I know the feeling. Don't fret though! There is a right way and there is a wrong way to try to get your girlfriend, boyfriend or spouse back. You will actually be amazed at this strategy, but let's first just see what you shouldn't do.

First, you need to be aware that getting your ex back is actually much easier than you think. In fact, I have links to three resources down at the bottom of this article that will help you do just that.

No heavy lifting, no crying, begging, or pleading. Just straight-up honest answers about how to win them back. I hope you'll want to check them out. They really can be a lifesavers.

So are you guilty of calling the night of the break up and wanting your ex to talk to you, only to have them turn you down?

Ah ha, thought so!

How about calling at 2 AM (after a couple drinks), professing your love for them and the fact that you cannot live without them?

Oh no, this is like the biggest mistake!

All you are doing is pushing them further away and making them not want anything to do with you ever. These are things that you should never do as it will always make matters worse for the both of you -- if there was ever that chance of getting back together, don't ruin it with these childish behaviors.

Don't ever act desperate and beg them to come back. If they don't cry because you are driving them absolutely crazy, they'll probably laugh at you and just how ridiculous you are acting.

Let it go. Yes, this is the first step. Why?

People will always want what they can't have. So now that they have broken it off with you, the best thing to do is agree with them. For one, they will be totally shocked. Not only that, they will almost automatically start seeing all the things that they love about you.

Send them a short and sweet little note agreeing with the break up. This is really the true test. If they have any love or desire for you, this is their cue to start making amends. They may not do it right away, but they definitely will in time. That is, of course, if there are any feelings left to do so.

Always go with the flow and agree with them. To not agree is just going to cause a fight and all you are doing is making it worse. You never sound desperate in hopes to saving your own heart. You must let them go so that they can see if there is anything left there.

You can truly feel whether or not someone has let go. When this happens, it is easier to see where your heart stands. It may not always be easy to let go but it will definitely save a lot of heartache.

Doing it today may bring them back into your arms tomorrow. Sometimes we must let someone fly just to appreciate the fact that they were our angel in the first place.