The awkward silence. There's probably nothing more uncomfortable. You've probably had a lot of awkward silences with woman. Your thinking 'what do I say?' and she's thinking 'why has he gone so quiet all of a sudden? Is he bored of me?'

Never worry about what you're going to say when you're talking to a woman. It makes you feel and act unnatural, and naturally intuitive woman will pick up on this, making both of you feel uncomfortable. What's funny about this is that the more you worry about the conversation, the more uncomfortable the conversation will be.

The cure for all of this is simple; don't worry about what you're going to talk about! Have you ever noticed that the best conversations just flow? You talking about X and then you move onto Y and then to Z and you wonder how you got there!

Talk to women as if you're talking to a friend that you've known for 10 years. Avoid boring small talk. Want to bore someone? Talk about the same things that everyone talks about; work, school, family, people who you both know, etc.

Don't be uncomfortable with silences! If your thinking about what to say to a woman you've just met and the conversation wanes, get her details and move on. If you're out with a woman and the conversation falters, don't worry about it. If you don't feel like talking, don't. Just don't look weird about it, because it'll make her feel weird. Lean back and act really comfortable, …or if you feel like talking, I've included some topics that women love talking about. The best thing is, once you hit a certain topic, she'll go on and on, and you can sit back and listen.

Women love to talk about:

Dating

Sex

Different between men and woman

Psychology

Entertainment

Gossip

Drama

Spiritual mystical things

Dreams

These topics are generally the best for getting women in the mood to talk. You'll also find that most women are actually really interested in men in general. Men intrigue them and they often want to know what makes us tick. Interesting.

Why do you think girls like wearing their boyfriends favorite sports team shirts? They love the whole he's a man's man thing So occasionally you should bring up man topics like sports, cars, motorcycles, music, business (not star trek dumb ass) remember a passionate ambitious man is a laid man.

Note: don't talk about these types of things too much. Focus more on topics that both of you find interesting, and make sure to tease, bust balls and be cheeky and funny.

Don't brag or show off. This kind of behavior is normally displayed by men who are approval seekers or those that have nothing else to offer. Your admirable qualities will be displayed by your personality and the way you carry yourself.

When you're at a party or social gathering, be sure to talk to both men and women. Don't be the sleazy guy walking from table to table hitting on all the girls. Be the social guy talking to everyone (but communicating a little differently with the women, my style).

When you start to sense that the conversation is moving onto boring topics, immediately change the topic. Talk about fun, interesting things that have the potential to move on into flirting and teasing.

Don't ask too many questions. Although this is a recognized social tool when meeting new people, it doesn't work with women because it puts you in the 'friend' category, not the 'attractive man' category.

Don't answer too many questions. If she asks what you do and where you're from, have fun with it. It just communicates that you're not the average guy.

Don't try and find things to talk about when you're talking to a woman, just let the conversation flow with your natural cocky, cheeky, funny self.