Men Get Turned Off - When You Do These 3 Things
- Date: 2009-05-03 - Word Count: 462
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Did you ever get the feeling that perhaps you said or did something wrong that might have turned men off? What is it that men don't like a woman to do? Have you sat and waited for a new guy to call you back but you think you might have said or did something to turn him off? Women have to learn what turns men off and how to avoid doing these things.
Most men will do anything to avoid a conflict. They are not going to tell you when you turn them off with something that you did or said. They will just disappear. So women have to understand how important it is to avoid doing these things. Here is what every woman should learn.
Turn Off #1: During the first few dates don't bad mouth your exes.
All of us, at one time or another have had our share of heartbreaks and dated heartbreakers. Although some of these heartbreaks were the guys' fault, some happened because we didn't stand up for ourselves. Whatever happens, you never want to talk about your past problems with the new guy you're dating. It is especially bad on your first few dates, as he will be deciding if he wants to continue dating you and doing this will be a big turn off for him. If you want to keep dating him, don't do it.
Turn Off #2: Hinting or telling him that you are ready to settle down.
This is something that guys really hate. You are telling him that because of timing, either your age or you're done playing games, you want to settle down. You aren't telling him that it's because of him and he won't feel very special. What you want to do is basically the opposite. Make him think that you aren't in any hurry to settle down. You're life is full and you are busy. Make him feel that if he proves to be someone special that you would consider making a commitment for him. Now he'll have to prove that he's someone special.
Turn Off #3: Talking about how important money is to you.
When selecting a lifetime partner, your security is important to you and with security, money. It is understandable that you want to find a successful, ambitious and competent man. But if you don't want him bolting on you during dinner on your first date, avoid talking about money at all costs. All guys are afraid that the woman that they are involved with are only out for the money and would hook them and them divorce them. If you show any signs of materialism he will certainly notice. He will only accept that you love him with or without his money. Only then will he show his generosity with you.
Most men will do anything to avoid a conflict. They are not going to tell you when you turn them off with something that you did or said. They will just disappear. So women have to understand how important it is to avoid doing these things. Here is what every woman should learn.
Turn Off #1: During the first few dates don't bad mouth your exes.
All of us, at one time or another have had our share of heartbreaks and dated heartbreakers. Although some of these heartbreaks were the guys' fault, some happened because we didn't stand up for ourselves. Whatever happens, you never want to talk about your past problems with the new guy you're dating. It is especially bad on your first few dates, as he will be deciding if he wants to continue dating you and doing this will be a big turn off for him. If you want to keep dating him, don't do it.
Turn Off #2: Hinting or telling him that you are ready to settle down.
This is something that guys really hate. You are telling him that because of timing, either your age or you're done playing games, you want to settle down. You aren't telling him that it's because of him and he won't feel very special. What you want to do is basically the opposite. Make him think that you aren't in any hurry to settle down. You're life is full and you are busy. Make him feel that if he proves to be someone special that you would consider making a commitment for him. Now he'll have to prove that he's someone special.
Turn Off #3: Talking about how important money is to you.
When selecting a lifetime partner, your security is important to you and with security, money. It is understandable that you want to find a successful, ambitious and competent man. But if you don't want him bolting on you during dinner on your first date, avoid talking about money at all costs. All guys are afraid that the woman that they are involved with are only out for the money and would hook them and them divorce them. If you show any signs of materialism he will certainly notice. He will only accept that you love him with or without his money. Only then will he show his generosity with you.
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