How to Overcome Your Fear of Rejection With Women


by Andres Munoz - Date: 2010-09-14 - Word Count: 498 Share This!

The scariest thing to an ordinary guy who has just started dating is getting rejected. Can you imagine being told off by the most beautiful girl in the club and getting embarrassed in front of the dozen or so people around you? You get the idea. But if you're dead set on learning how to date and you want to start getting some, read on to find out how you can overcome your fear of rejection once and for all…

First of all, you have to understand a woman's version of power play. If you seem like a guy who needs approval from women, and who needs to get validated by others to be able to function, they feel that they can freely walk all over you and you wouldn't be able to do anything.

The answer seems simple enough; you just have to gain enough confidence to be able to self-validate. You must be able to say 'I'm cool, you can say whatever you want', until you realize that you really have the "hots" for her and you want to at least get her phone number. Then, you're back to square one.

To really smash that invisible barrier between dating a hot babe and going home alone to download girl's photos from sleazy websites, you must understand some key principles on how you can overcome your fear of rejection. And, here they are.

1. Make the Natural Man to Woman Ratio Work for You

It's a fact that there are at least three women to one man in the world, and this ratio has been scientifically proven to be valid. What does this mean to you? A woman who rejects you is just one of the many more you can date, so you must never lose hope. Sure, she's a beauty, but with an abrasive attitude like the one she just showed you, you just know you wouldn't date her for the long term so why waste time.

Listen, man, every time you let your fear of rejection get to you, the most receptive beautiful girls are getting snatched up by average guys like you who never gave up after several failed attempts at approaching girls. There are so many women and so few men, just think of the possibilities.

2. Rejection is funny!

Infuse humor in how you see rejection by not taking it on a personal level. Don't take yourself too seriously and you will realize just how easy it is to overcome your fear of rejection.

Have you ever seen a guy get rejected? How about if you saw the same scene in a video or a television sitcom somewhere? If you're like me, you would probably laugh at the antics of the guy who approaches women and fails miserably.

If you keep your funny side alive, you will begin to realize that objectively, rejection is actually a humorous thing you can tell your grandchildren about someday. The secret to being the guy who can overcome rejection fears is that he never stops trying.


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