Sex and the Senior: Sizzling Senior Sex Requires Sensuality


by Shuford Davis - Date: 2007-01-22 - Word Count: 406 Share This!

Sex and the senior. Now there are two words that do not typically go together. They can still go together in your senior years if you maintain sensuality in your senior years.

Sensuality enjoys sensual play without it necessarily leading to intercourse. Over the years as I have interviewed couples the following playful, sensual activities have emerged as favorites:

Mutual massage: Go to the self help or sexuality section of a good bookstore and you will find several books on sensual massage or get naked and experiment. The key is to relax and enjoy being pleasured by your partner.

Shower or bathe together: Many couples report this is their favorite. Tenderly washing your spouse's body is a gift you give to each other. Caress the entire body and slowly absorb the joy of touching and being touched. The bath is often enhanced with scented soap and candles. Drying each other is dessert.

Sleeping in the nude: Sexy lingerie is great to look at but shed for bed. Whoever invented pajamas must have been born to prudes and weaned on Puritanism. After all when you are under the covers and the lights are out who can see you? Not even your spouse. It's touchy feely and very sensual. Snuggle up!

A Tom Jones (from the movie) meal: eating food off of each others bodies. Jake and Amy had gone to this movie when they were dating. Years later they remembered what a turn-on the food scene was. They rented the video, put big beach towels on the carpet, surrounded themselves with finger food, turned on the movie and doubled their pleasure.

Sun bathing au naturalwear lots of sunscreen you know where. Most couples enjoy this in the privacy of their yard or some secluded spot. Bolder couples romp at clothing optional beaches and resorts. Ben Franklin called this an "air bath" and recommended it as regular practice for good physical and emotional health.

Long kisses: Remember when you first started dating in your teens. Unless you were precociously promiscuous you kissed a lot and guys tried to cop a feel. Long kisses is the first way we learned to be sensual. Return to your roots. Many women report they receive very little affection until husband wants sex. Guys that is a very big turn-off akin to B.O. and bad breath. Hugs and kisses go a long way in enhancing sense of self, desire for spouse, and the feeling that we have a loving relationship.


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