Dating Advice: 5 Ways to Make Sure You Do Not Get a Second Date
Okay. You've done all the things the dating experts told you to do on how to meet women and lo and behold it worked. You met an attractive woman and she wants to go out with you. Great. However if you want to make this first date your last and guarantee that she avoids any future contact with you as if you had a plague from the 12th century than utilize the following tips:
1. Lateness
You planned out this date in great detail. You obviously planned also not to be on time. It is one thing to call and let her know you are running a little behind schedule but are on the way. It is another to show up an hour later (or worse) and not even give her the courtesy of a phone call. When it comes to going out somewhere, many women are sticklers for promptness. You do not get a second chance to make a first impression and showing up late tells her you are not really taking this date seriously
2. What conversation?
Your date starts talking and talking and talking. Not because she wants to but because you do not have anything to say other than an occasional "uh-huh". It could be nerves on your part or you were just unprepared to speak on any subject. Whatever it is, having to drag conversation out of your date is not a woman's idea of fun.
This goes for the opposite end of the spectrum also. Practicing conversation hogging or slapping down her opinion each time she attempts to contribute to the discussion may give her the following impression: "This guy is a jerk." Chances are that's not the vibe you wanted to give out.
3. What humor?
You don't know any jokes. You don't make any humorous comments. As a matter of fact, when she says something funny you go out of your way to analyze it and find the serious point in what she was trying to say. Yuck. No one wants to be around a stick in the mud. Sharing some laughs with her can work absolute wonders so lighten up.
Now keep in mind she never agreed to go out on a date with Bozo the Clown either. Laughing at anything and everything is not healthy. Doing this could make her a little nervous about you. She could also come to the conclusion you have some serious issues to work out.
4. Pretend
This is known in some circles as lying. Sure you want to impress her but exaggerating your importance is not the way to do it. Starting a dating relationship with a lie is a formula for disaster. If your date senses that you are lying, that disaster will come sooner than you think.
5. She reminds me of
If you want to guarantee this is your last date with her than start here. You are out with her and talking about your ex wife, former girlfriends or any other women you have on your mind is not going to further the relationship. She agreed to go out on this date with you. You would do well to treat her like she is the most important woman in your life at this moment.
Of course there are other things you can do to foul up your chances of getting a second date. Talking on your cell phone incessantly, forgetting her name (repeatedly) or drifting off to never never land when she is talking. All are pretty effective but for right now stick with the five listed above and before you know it, you will be home every night watching reruns of Sanford and Son.
Related Tags: dating advice, dating tip, dating relationship, dating relationship advice, man woman relationship, dating woman, free dating tip, meeting dating woman, dating advice tip
Daryl Campbell invites you to get more relationship and dating tips, tools, videos, up to the minute information plus your free copy of 101 Romantic Ideas. It's all at The Dating Tip
Your Article Search Directory : Find in ArticlesRecent articles in this category:
- How to Find a Russian Partner
A relationship developed online is a trend these days. Many men actually prefer to start a romantic - Things You Should Not Talk About on a First Date
First dates can be stressful, but they can also be a lot of fun. If you make the situation low press - Low-cost Dating Tips To Suit Your Tastes
Dating has always been an expensive affair. However, if you're running on a drawstring budget, then - How To Pick Up Girls - The Art Of Approaching Women
So, you want to learn the art of picking up women, do you?Well, for one thing... it's not easy, at l - Real World Dating Advice For Men - How To Handle Your Insecurities Around Women
Feeling insecure around a woman is something that ALL men can kind of share in. Whether or not we sp - Are You Looking Forward To Make New Friends?
In today's fast paced life, phone has become an essential commodity. Everyone is busy in his daily s - Thai Girls Dating Online: Does It Help You
Thai girls are perceived that they are so sweet. Dating with nice Thai girls have been converted int - Become Happy With Ukrainian Dating Tips & Advice
It is about time you settled down or at least had more fun. Ukrainian dating and meeting Ukrainian w - Free Phone Chat- Revolutionary New Way To Make Boost Your Social Life
From online chatting to phone chat, the step is but a small one. Movies and books all portray fallin - Bad Boys Versus Good Guys - Why Women Are More Attracted To The Bad Men
I personally have had my share of bad boys in my lifetime and after many broken hearts and life less
Most viewed articles in this category:
- Dating: Gay Online Services
Gay online dating websites have already helped millions of people find their soul mate across the gl - Dating And How To Attract A New Love
Here are some easy rituals to attract a new love partner. There's an ancient east Asian concept cal - How to Have a Beautiful Relationship With a Girl
1. Things to already have and believeYou know who you are and believe in yourself and what you can o - Great First Dating Impressions
There are those who will offer you very old fashioned secrets to impressing single women for love an - The Secret Body Language Of Sexual Attraction
What body language in a female demonstrates sexual attraction? You'll know from my previous articles - The Phenomenon of Prickteasing
I love this topic right here. First let me say I draw the reference 'pricktease' from the movie ' - Attract Better Dates Like Magic
If you want to meet someone special, you have to get out of the house. But you can go out every sing - Dating For Singles
The desire to find a member of the opposite sex for a partner (we call it marriage nowadays) has bee - Dating After Divorce
Many single Christians are confused when it comes to dating after divorce, as each church seems to h - Online Dating Sims Games Bringing Realism To Dating
Online dating has become very popular and with so many members now interested in such sites the soci