Be Like A Magnet
- Date: 2007-11-30 - Word Count: 508
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I know a very spiritual woman who has recently realized a reversal in her circumstances: She told me, 'I used to have unfortunate beliefs about myself and I received back from external influences unfortunate results. When I decided to take control and raise my resonance, to be the change I wanted to become, to allow abundance and love come flow through me, absolutely everything fell into place. I am now living a life of leisure with a beautiful husband and I can draw what I want into my universe at will.'
What is a love magnet, money magnet, or health magnet? What does it take to become a magnet?
All it takes is a shift in perception.
Pay attention to what you focus on. Do you automatically expect a depressing day when it rains? Do you make assumptions that you'll be happy when it's sunny? What would happen to assume all rainy days are going to be glorious because you can splash through puddles or get indoor activities taken care of.
Focus on good, good will come to you. Focus on grief, you will draw grief. I'm not suggesting that there's no place for grief, but just that we need to realize we need not suffer over our own suffering and automatically make ourselves into grief magnets.
The other day I overheard a girl in a cafe telling her friend, 'I'm a freak magnet. I can't leave my apartment without running into someone either clinically insane, someone whacked out on drugs or fanatical about some weirdness who wants to have extensive interaction with me.'
Her friend said, 'That's crazy. Your neighborhood is really nice. You'd think there wouldn't be too many freaks around there.'
'I don't know. The freaks just seem to find me. They're everywhere that I am. They're just out there waiting for me to leave the house to try to get me to join their cult.'
Of course, I didn't interrupt, but I thought to myself, how awful for this girl to believe this about herself. She's unconsciously drawing the lowest common denominator to her by putting out this energy into the world.
This is really how attraction works. What you think about yourself, you are. What you believe about the world, is your reality. What you speak, is your truth.
I was tempted, but didn't tell her, 'You could just as easily not be a 'freak magnet' by telling yourself you're some other kind of magnet.' My intrusion, sadly, would have merely confirmed her self-diagnosis and she'd misinterpret my attempt at kindness as just another freak trying to freak her out.
Whatever your beliefs, I implore you, take this freak's advice and adjust your expectations of what the world is going to bring you and start requesting only good and not the lowest common denominator.
Kenrick Cleveland teaches techniques to sell to affluent clients using persuasion strategies. He runs unique public and private seminars and offers home study courses, audio/visual learning tools, and coaching programs in persuasion techniques. Find more free articles at www.MAXpersuasion.com/blog. Be sure to sign up for his free report entitled "Yes! Persuasion."
What is a love magnet, money magnet, or health magnet? What does it take to become a magnet?
All it takes is a shift in perception.
Pay attention to what you focus on. Do you automatically expect a depressing day when it rains? Do you make assumptions that you'll be happy when it's sunny? What would happen to assume all rainy days are going to be glorious because you can splash through puddles or get indoor activities taken care of.
Focus on good, good will come to you. Focus on grief, you will draw grief. I'm not suggesting that there's no place for grief, but just that we need to realize we need not suffer over our own suffering and automatically make ourselves into grief magnets.
The other day I overheard a girl in a cafe telling her friend, 'I'm a freak magnet. I can't leave my apartment without running into someone either clinically insane, someone whacked out on drugs or fanatical about some weirdness who wants to have extensive interaction with me.'
Her friend said, 'That's crazy. Your neighborhood is really nice. You'd think there wouldn't be too many freaks around there.'
'I don't know. The freaks just seem to find me. They're everywhere that I am. They're just out there waiting for me to leave the house to try to get me to join their cult.'
Of course, I didn't interrupt, but I thought to myself, how awful for this girl to believe this about herself. She's unconsciously drawing the lowest common denominator to her by putting out this energy into the world.
This is really how attraction works. What you think about yourself, you are. What you believe about the world, is your reality. What you speak, is your truth.
I was tempted, but didn't tell her, 'You could just as easily not be a 'freak magnet' by telling yourself you're some other kind of magnet.' My intrusion, sadly, would have merely confirmed her self-diagnosis and she'd misinterpret my attempt at kindness as just another freak trying to freak her out.
Whatever your beliefs, I implore you, take this freak's advice and adjust your expectations of what the world is going to bring you and start requesting only good and not the lowest common denominator.
Kenrick Cleveland teaches techniques to sell to affluent clients using persuasion strategies. He runs unique public and private seminars and offers home study courses, audio/visual learning tools, and coaching programs in persuasion techniques. Find more free articles at www.MAXpersuasion.com/blog. Be sure to sign up for his free report entitled "Yes! Persuasion."
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