Why 'Nice Guys' Find It Harder To Attract Sexy Women


by Dan Dicker - Date: 2007-03-21 - Word Count: 669 Share This!

It's one of those inexplicable facts for a lot of 'nice' men. How is it that the cocky, annoying and downright undeserving males rarely seem to be without a woman in their life? Even if they haven't got one right now then they've probably had dozens and are just having a break, knowing full well that it's going to be a breeze to get another when they feel like it. Having a choice of women is normal for them, unlike the so called 'nice guys' who always make a special effort to come across as good and worthy examples of the male species that would never treat a female bad and are dependable and trustworthy etc. These types of guys struggle to hold a womans interest in them, and then if they are lucky enough to get a date or two, it's probably because their desired mate wants to have a little bit of fun with him, you know, wind him up a bit and get him all frustrated and then go off to the dancefloor with some jerk that loves himself. Yep, I've seen this many times with friends of mine and it's happened to me a couple of times as well, I'm not ashamed to admit it. And you know what...I got what I deserved and so did those dumbass friends of mine.

The reason I say this, is because us 'nice guys' fail to see where they go wrong with dating, over and over and over again, yeah that's a lot of overs alright, women they could have had a relationship with if they had only NOT tried to be so freaking 'nice'. Let's get real here... 'nice' just isn't sexy, and most men would like to date a woman that he feels sexual attraction for, otherwise he wouldn't be reading an article like this. It's not too difficult to find someone gross as you can bet that their needy, so all you would need to do is start chatting nice to them and you're sorted.

The problem lies in the fact that a guy that appears nice and agreeable is also perceived as a WEAK guy. As far as the mating ritual goes, women are natrually seeking out men that are confident, as these men are more capable of protecting her and the children that may come later on. You could say it's animal instinct or something similar, because her needs in a mate have not differed since the dawn of human creation. So basically, what the 'nice guy' is doing, by seeking approval, is making it harder to generate sexual attraction and possibly to regenerate himself through children.

It doesn't have to be hard. 'Nice' is hard to keep up all the time and is unreal. How on earth is it possible to get physical when a guy is on ceremony and obviously nervous. A woman has to feel relaxed, and that means he has to be himself. this is why the so called 'jerks' don't have a problem, it's because they don't care. Remember, humans love a challenge and 'nice guys' are NOT a challenge... their love and attention are guaranteed to sexy women. Yeeuuuk!

O.K. I know I may sound bitter but in fact I'm not, I'm on top of the world because this problem doesn't apply to me anymore and reason is because I cracked the code, and no, I didn't get a face job or win the national lottery. In fact I'm ordinary looking and of average height, and the one thing that can be proved to you is that a guy does NOT have to be tall and handsome to be succsesful with sexy women, they just need to act and sound like a womans idea of a male, it's not hard and guess what, it can be learned inside a couple of days. If you would like to find out more just pop over to my site for a full brief on what to do. I look forward to seeing you there.


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Sincerely

Dan Dicker

http://www.nice-guys-finish-last.com/

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