Missing your ex badly? Really want to win your ex back? Are you sure? You might regret this... ok, here are some tips on how you can win back your ex and recapture their love again.

Tip 1:

Winning your ex back doesn't happen by trying to persuade or 'trick' them back into the relationship, but you knew that already I hope. When you want your ex back, you want them to come back willingly and with certainty they want to be with you. This means you can't push them. Give them the space they need to get their head together. In the mean time, refocus your attention elsewhere.

Tip 2:

Here is something I see far too many people making a mistake of. You got dumped but you still love your ex... they know this and continue to maintain contact and try to I guess... take advantage of the situation. If your ex has displayed strong signs of wanting to maintain contact and they are sending 'mixed signals', this is NOT a sign they want to get back together. It's a sign they are selfish and want to keep you as Plan B. Show them you have respect for yourself and don't allow them to do this to you.

Tip 3:

Maintaining the No Contact Rule is said to be almost as hard as giving up smoking. This comes down to how much control you have.

Missing your ex is natural, what is not natural is calling, texting, emailing them when they have essentially rejected you from their life.

If you're thinking you can suddenly return to being 'just friends' or hope that the 'just friends' status will give you more chance of winning them back than not friends at all then you are sadly mistaken. Be strong, stick to no contact and it will pay off.

Tip 4:

Funny thing with the Ex is they always come back somewhere down the line... use this knowledge to your advantage. You know now you will come into contact. Use this time to improve yourself (yes I know you've heard it before but there's a reason for that), work on achieving your life goals that doesn't involve another person. Enjoy company with friends and try to move on even just a tiny bit.

Tip 5:

You've made it! Feels good to regain some control of your life right? Well... perhaps if you're reading this you're not sure how this will really help you win your ex back. But you'd be wrong! Ever notice how it's only when you stop caring or 'focusing' on something that it suddenly comes to you? If you notice when you've received anything you really wanted in your life, it probably crept up on you when you least expected.

Final tip? I believe true love comes back and having patience and faith also doesn't hurt. But do you want to know why 90% of people fail to win their ex back? Even when they followed all the right advice and had every chance in the world to win their ex back? It has nothing to do with their ex or how they feel about them... here's how you can avoid the common pitfalls and do everything RIGHT: Win Back Your Ex.

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