Get A Guy To Like You - Secrets About What Men Find Attractive


by Tina L. Jones - Date: 2009-05-03 - Word Count: 523 Share This!

Do you think that being a nice girl works with a guy? Do you still believe your Mom that you should be a lady to get a guy to love you? Have you been taught that you have to do whatever it takes to please a guy and make him happy? According to these best-selling books, Why Men Marry Bitches and Why Men Marry Some Women and Not Others, when it comes to getting a guy to like you and attraction, being a nice girl isn't what it takes.

If you lived in by-gone eras then the advice probably would have held true. But all the girls in those days were basically taught the same thing and you would have to hope against hope that the man of your dreams would single you out from all of the others. Today the rules have changed in dating and you will have to accept that. You have to learn all the rules again so you will be able to stand out above the crowds and get the guy you're after.

Back in the day, a woman knew that if she was a good mother, competent housewife and a charming hostess she was good wife material and mastering these skills weren't difficult. In this day, two things are required to getting a guy. The first thing a woman needs to do is believe that she can attract the man of her dreams and make herself very attractive. Women have to learn and actually study how attraction works and not sit back and think that what is meant to be will be or everything will turn out okay with the right man. These are excuses for not trying to learn. When a woman actively learns how attraction works she opens up much more options in finding the man who is for her and will be able to attract the man of high quality she wants and deserves.

Do you have any idea about male psychology, what men like, what men find attractive or how they think? The second thing a woman needs to do is work on learning about these things. A man will convey his love signals in a unique way to a woman. Unless you have gotten yourself 'emotionally attuned' to a particular man, there is room for misinterpretation and confusion and eventually you will lose him. Like a husband cheating on his wife because she just doesn't understand him, a dating situation is no different and he will find a woman that does understand him.

To get a guy to like you will have to do these three things:

* Change the way you are thinking.
* Learn a male's perspective of how attraction works and how men think.
* Practice, practice and practice some more until you are a master at attracting a guy.

Satisfaction with your dating life comes with you doing something about it. Unless you change your way of thinking and make the effort to learn what really works to attract him, your dating life will never change. Be that bold woman who will get what she wants and don't settle for being the nice girl finishing last.

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