So, you want to learn the art of picking up women, do you?

Well, for one thing... it's not easy, at least not at first. For most guys out there, the thought of picking up a girl is enough to make them want to run far and away.

Okay, it might not be that drastic, but the reality is... most guys don't even really ever try to pick up girls.

Think about it.

When was the last time that you or any of your buddies actually went out with the sole goal of approaching women, getting some phone numbers, and preferably getting dates and maybe some hot, hookup sex?

If you have to think about it... it's probably safe to say that you don't do it all that often.

That's okay, as long as you are willing to make a change.

Unless of course, you don't mind having a cheesy movie and a tub of ice cream become your best friend on the weekend.

Why don't most guys go out and try to pick up girls?

There are a few common reasons:

1) Fear.

2) Inexperience.

3) Believing that picking up girls is somehow wrong.

Now, there might be more than these three reasons, but these 3 make up the primary reason for probably about 90 percent of guys.

Lets take a look at these three reasons and break them down:

1) Fear comes from the unknown, and it can come from bad experiences in the past.

Anyway that you look at it, fear of approaching women is NOT a good thing. You need to realize that breaking through the fear is where all the good stuff is, and in this case, it means it's where the beautiful women are. If you are going to pick up girls, then you need to get past that fear as soon as POSSIBLE.

2) Inexperience comes from... the lack of experience.

The only way to get around this is to go out and get some experience. Look, you have to start somewhere, right? What's that old saying, "A journey of a thousand miles starts with the first step" right? Same thing applies to picking up women. Take the first step and handle this part of your life and a wide array of beautiful women will become available to YOU.

3) Believing that picking up girls is wrong comes from conditioning.

Now, if this is due to your religious beliefs, then I can't really say anything to get past that. That is your belief and I respect that. However, for most guys, it comes from what society has told them and led them to believe about picking up women. You get sold the image that pick up artists are all sleazy and that women don't want to hook up with guys, they want to fall in love.

If that were true, pick up artists would NOT get laid, and women would not go out to clubs wearing next to nothing and batting their pretty little eyes at whatever guy they think is cute. As far as pick up artists being sleazy... some are, I can't deny that, but that does not mean that you have to be a sleazy guy to pick up women.